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    i was at a party recently and there was this girl i thought was hot, so i asked her if she wanted to dance. anyway she started grindin proper on me and let say i got a little happy...
    i was kinda embarrassed but just wanted to know if this has happened to any of you and girls do you mind if the guy you were grindin on got a hard on.
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    I'm not a fan of grinding myself. The only time I did it, I was still a virgin and pretty inexperienced, so it probably would have freaked me out a bit - but not in a logical way, just because I was naive. To be honest, if a girl's doing that, she's gotta expect something to come up. It's not like your penis knows it's a social situation and not something more interesting.
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    I remember one girl who grinded for the first time once had more than just a little excitment while doing that.
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    It pretty much comes as standard... I mean I guess it depends how old you are. I don't think I'd ever really dirty danced until one of my friends' boyfriends decided to dance with me on my 18th since the rest of my friends weren't really up for it and i had a whole kinda i would get really freaked out if i didn't know that was your phone. No wait if that's your phone then what is THAT?! :eek: mental dilemma thing going on... But now I sort of take it as standard... i'd probably get offended if the guy didn't get a little excited hehe!
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    (Original post by Bekaboo)
    It pretty much comes as standard... I mean I guess it depends how old you are. I don't think I'd ever really dirty danced until one of my friends' boyfriends decided to dance with me on my 18th since the rest of my friends weren't really up for it
    Your friend's BOYFRIEND grinded with you?!?!?!

    If my boyfriend did that I would be so angry.
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    A girl proper grinded me in a club once, and considering that's probably the most extensive female contact I've ever had, I got a huge erection. She didn't seem to mind, in fact it was probably her intention. She must have noticed, everyone else in the club probably did too.
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    (Original post by Jelkin)
    Your friend's BOYFRIEND grinded with you?!?!?!

    If my boyfriend did that I would be so angry.
    Yeh well M is just a great big sleaze ball who should be kept away from my friend with a giant stick, but we failed miserably at managing that and 3 years on they're still together. Her response was just to start dancing with my ex and another friend in a sort of three-way over the top humping thing so it just became a good giggle, and at the first opportunity I passed him back to her. Like I said, first time - I didn't really see it as a big deal until then!
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    she was probably flattered more than anything. it means shes doing something right :p:
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    If shes rubbing herself all over your mans bits and you didnt get 'excited' I expect she would be dissapointed as its probably what she intended to do.

    Although personally 'grinding' (what an awful word ) is not somthing id ever do and everytime some sleezebag has walked upto me in a club and tried rubbing their **** on my back they have all recieved a swift kick in the shin
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    LOL reminds me of this girl who came up to me a while ago in a club. She doesn't say a word and just starts dancing while rubbing her arse on my ****. You get the picture.

    Anyway, I take this as an invitation and say something random and she says "Are you hitting on me? Go away".

    :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by happywonderingx)
    she was probably flattered more than anything. it means shes doing something right :p:

    how can you possibly do something wrong when you're rubbing your arse against a guy's private parts
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    I was out with a girl a few months ago just before i came back home for summer. Anyway she was grinding into me all night, and i kept getting aroused. Then we get back to mine and then she decides to tell me she's 'on'. I was gutted and my balls ached all night haha .

    OP dont worry about it, it happens to all of us.
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    (Original post by Sundous)
    how can you possibly do something wrong when you're rubbing your arse against a guy's private parts
    well perhaps if it was your brother...
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    (Original post by Bekaboo)


    Yeh well M is just a great big sleaze ball who should be kept away from my friend with a giant stick, but we failed miserably at managing that and 3 years on they're still together. Her response was just to start dancing with my ex and another friend in a sort of three-way over the top humping thing so it just became a good giggle, and at the first opportunity I passed him back to her. Like I said, first time - I didn't really see it as a big deal until then!


    The irony of it - it was his big? stick that was keeping you away from him :P

    sow, such a bad joke but blah
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    (Original post by geordie2006)
    I was out with a girl a few months ago just before i came back home for summer. Anyway she was grinding into me all night, and i kept getting aroused. Then we get back to mine and then she decides to tell me she's 'on'. I was gutted and my balls ached all night haha .

    OP dont worry about it, it happens to all of us.

    Bit harsh on her part IMO, there are some things that doesn't stop her doing.
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    (Original post by Sundous)
    how can you possibly do something wrong when you're rubbing your arse against a guy's private parts

    Fart? worse still, follow through? If he feels the sweet vibrations of a gas bullet strike his man meat it may be a turn off.

    AS for the thread..... erm yeah its embarrassing at first, but she's basically playing with you.... you gotta expect a blood rush.
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    (Original post by Spoog!)
    Bit harsh on her part IMO, there are some things that doesn't stop her doing.
    Um what? Because a girl dances with a guy, especially if she doesn't know him, she's hardly under the obligation to give him sexual favours. :rolleyes:
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    Yehh i know what you mean lol. To be honest, in a way, it can be a good thing as its your body involuntarily telling the girl your willing to go further...
    Also, it makes dancing even better :P
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    Generally grinding gives guys the impression the girl wants something. If she didn't, why grind? There are other ways of dancing with someone.
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    (Original post by Sticky)
    Um what? Because a girl dances with a guy, especially if she doesn't know him, she's hardly under the obligation to give him sexual favours. :rolleyes:

    Didn't she go back to his house? thats a fair hint she was up for it.
 
 
 
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