how do people do it?? need advice!! ... friendship... socialising... all that jazz.

Announcements
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    okay so out of curiousity, I want to be social. I go to a girls school and I don't socialise with people from other schools because I don't know how to... however there are girls ... usually the popular ones... who seem to know everyone and make friends with the whole town and it confuses me how they do it. I'm in year 12 now and it's been happening since year 7... just want an explanation as to how these girls socialise and pretty much know so many of the other popular kids in other schools. secondly, how do I socialise?? there's a girl who joined my school 2 months ago and she's made friends with pretty much everyone and goes to all the parties hosted by other kids in other schools.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    You could try talking to people? We can't just teach you how to socialise tbh.
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    You could try talking to people? We can't just teach you how to socialise tbh.
    Woody are you up at this time?.
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    You could try talking to people? We can't just teach you how to socialise tbh.
    i always see your posts during the afternoon.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Ttingox)
    Woody are you up at this time?.
    Nah mate, sleep-TSRing again :top:
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Nah mate, sleep-TSRing again :top:
    Nice, me too.

    By the way I have always wondered if the arm in your avatar pic is your arm?.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Ttingox)
    By the way I have always wondered if the arm in your avatar pic is your arm?.
    Yep
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Yep
    Nice.
    Then you are very fit.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Ttingox)
    Nice.
    Then you are very fit.
    Haha thanks mate, a few years of hard work but my physique has completely transformed, I used to have arms like twigs :rofl:
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Haha thanks mate, a few years of hard work but my physique has completely transformed, I used to have arms like twigs :rofl:
    Like I have right now .

    Never managed to stick with the gym, because I would enter the gym and it will be full with guys with your physique, which would ruin all of my motivation.
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Haha thanks mate, a few years of hard work but my physique has completely transformed, I used to have arms like twigs :rofl:
    By the way woody,let me remark from my observation that I think you are a good guy, as I have never seen you retort to using swear words or personal remarks on here.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Ttingox)
    Like I have right now .

    Never managed to stick with the gym, because I would enter the gym and it will be full with guys with your physique, which would ruin all of my motivation.

    By the way woody,let me remark from my observation that I think you are a good guy, as I have never seen you retort to using swear words or personal remarks on here.
    I always used that as motivation tbh, seeing other people and wanting to look as good as, or better than, that.

    Thanks brosef, I dunno about swearing haha I curse a lot, just generally though rather than at people I banter people but I try not to be too much of a dick :top:
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    To be fair popularity is derived from people perceiving you as popular, really the popular kids are just a clique like every other group of people but they act like stereotypical popular people so become popular because everyone else thinks they are.
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I always used that as motivation tbh, seeing other people and wanting to look as good as, or better than, that.

    Thanks brosef, I dunno about swearing haha I curse a lot, just generally though rather than at people I banter people but I try not to be too much of a dick :top:
    I see, yes you can use that as motivation, it's the other side of the coin of that.

    And yes I meant that you are not mean to others like so many on here.

    By the way are you from England?.

    I am from Israel. 23 years old.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Did you make friends with the new girl?
 
 
 
Write a reply… Reply
Submit reply

Register

Thanks for posting! You just need to create an account in order to submit the post
  1. this can't be left blank
    that username has been taken, please choose another Forgotten your password?
  2. this can't be left blank
    this email is already registered. Forgotten your password?
  3. this can't be left blank

    6 characters or longer with both numbers and letters is safer

  4. this can't be left empty
    your full birthday is required
  1. Oops, you need to agree to our Ts&Cs to register
  2. Slide to join now Processing…

Updated: September 26, 2016
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Poll
Do you think sex education should be compulsory in schools?
Useful resources

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Quick reply
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.