once a cheater always a cheater right??

Announcements
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    Hi guys I just want to ask if any of u would ever take someone back even after they have cheated on u twice and swore to never do it again. Be as honest as u want in ur responses because this is really important. I am doing a poll and whichever side has the strongest vote is the one that will be taken into consideration.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Well it's ultimately up to you.
    I have this whole head vs heart issue tbh. My head would tell me to leave and my heart would tell me to stay. Make of that what you will. I think I'd stay.
    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Offline

    3
    I honestly could give a person one chance for ANYTHING. Like for any circumstance. If they abused my trust AGAIN, then no...I couldn't forgive them/ take them back.
    Online

    2
    ReputationRep:
    Cheating has a strong genetic disposition. In most cases, it is highly likely they will cheat again; just dump them.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Don't agree with title
    But twice is disrespectful.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Matrix123)
    Well it's ultimately up to you.
    I have this whole head vs heart issue tbh. My head would tell me to leave and my heart would tell me to stay. Make of that what you will. I think I'd stay.
    Posted from TSR Mobile
    OMG thanks so much I really want to stay but I am afraid that everyone will think I am stupid because it is not the 1st time it has happened!!
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    No
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by AdeptDz)
    Don't agree with title
    But twice is disrespectful.
    I'm sorry my title bombs but could u come up with a better name? I didnt know what else to title it
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Left, not always right.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by saraxh)
    No
    Thank u for that very straight to the point answer.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Wouldn't take them back after the first time.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Globay)
    I'm sorry my title bombs but could u come up with a better name? I didnt know what else to title it
    It is not a bad title. I just don't agree with it, others may. But personally I would choose something like 'Should i give him a third chance?' or like ' Should I trust him again?'
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by UWS)
    Wouldn't take them back after the first time.
    U can say that but when it actually happens to u its not so simple. I used to say that all the time but look at me. I have to ask random people on a website what to do. Its not all black and white unfortunately.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Globay)
    OMG thanks so much I really want to stay but I am afraid that everyone will think I am stupid because it is not the 1st time it has happened!!
    No worries.
    Well to that I say definitely stay. It doesn't matter what other people say. This is your relationship, not theirs. If you still think you can trust him despite however many times he may have cheated, then don't be afraid to stay.

    As for the supposed stupidity, there must be a reason(s) for you wanting to stay which, if you think outweighs the negatives of staying, you should listen to. You also seem like you really don't want this to end. Make sure he knows how much this hurts you, then remain and hopefully things will work from there.
    Posted from TSR Mobile
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by AdeptDz)
    It is not a bad title. I just don't agree with it, others may. But personally I would choose something like 'Should i give him a third chance?' or like ' Should I trust him again?'
    yeh actually yours are so much better. Even I dont agree with my title now!!:rolleyes:
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Matrix123)
    No worries.
    Well to that I say definitely stay. It doesn't matter what other people say. This is your relationship, not theirs. If you still think you can trust him despite however many times he may have cheated, then don't be afraid to stay.

    As for the supposed stupidity, there must be a reason(s) for you wanting to stay which, if you think outweighs the negatives of staying, you should listen to. You also seem like you really don't want this to end. Make sure he knows how much this hurts you, then remain and hopefully things will work from there.
    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Girl u should be some kind of inspirational speaker or something. That advice rocks. Thank u so much!!
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Globay)
    Girl u should be some kind of inspirational speaker or something. That advice rocks. Thank u so much!!
    Hehe thanks. And no worries, all the best with the relationship
    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    As a person who got cheated on countless times by the same person, yes they sure do.

    They'll change if they love you enough. If they do it more than once then they never really loved you anyway.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    You know I was gonna post about my history with cheating, but then remembered that a future girlfriend might find this and dump me. Women can be like the NSA when it comes to checking up on their men. So the answer is, nah, today with all our mass communication and so much information everywhere about people, cheating isn't as easy to get away with as it once was. Yeah im a scumbag, deal with it.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Kürbiskern)
    You know I was gonna post about my history with cheating, but then remembered that a future girlfriend might find this and dump me. Women can be like the NSA when it comes to checking up on their men. So the answer is, nah, today with all our mass communication and so much information everywhere about people, cheating isn't as easy to get away with as it once was. Yeah im a scumbag, deal with it.
    yeh but u dont have to be a scumbag!
 
 
 
Write a reply… Reply
Submit reply

Register

Thanks for posting! You just need to create an account in order to submit the post
  1. this can't be left blank
    that username has been taken, please choose another Forgotten your password?
  2. this can't be left blank
    this email is already registered. Forgotten your password?
  3. this can't be left blank

    6 characters or longer with both numbers and letters is safer

  4. this can't be left empty
    your full birthday is required
  1. Oops, you need to agree to our Ts&Cs to register
  2. Slide to join now Processing…

Updated: September 27, 2016
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Poll
Would you ever go to a non Russell Group uni?

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Quick reply
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.