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Im the duff

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    For all those who don't know a Duff is the designated ugly fat friend. OK. Im exaggerating here. Im not fat and Im not ugly however. My best friend at school is a tall, dark Italian dude who all the girls seem to love. He doesn't even intentionally try to make moves on them, they just are obsessed with him. Being his best friend I am always with him so we always get invited to the parties. Before I loved the attention we got as i was new at the school however I have realised in our friendship, girls are really nice to me because they want to get to him. Lately it has gotten worse as the girl I like has started flirting with him.

    Sorry for long post. Just needed to say it

    Heres a POTATO

    hook up with him. Make the girl you like jealous.


    And on a serious note, there will always be someone better looking than you and someone not as good looking as you, it's just a fact of life. Don't put to much emphasis on it, do what you can to make yourself feel better (that could include eating better+working out more+ change of haircut etc).

    I like to think of it this way, this body I have will rot and die eventually and we all end up in the same place anyway therefore why put so much emphasis on something that will vanish in the end? instead put emphasis on things that do matter like your interests and relationships with people, create happy memories etc because those things don't die out nearly as fast as we do
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Updated: September 26, 2016
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