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    • #1
    • Thread Starter

    My boyfriend and I have tried multiple times to have sex but it never really work? Will it just take time...

    It's really common to find it difficult at first - I think it took me 2 or 3 times before he actually got inside me. You need to make sure you're really relaxed - lots of foreplay and lots of lube will help. If it continues to be a problem though, you might want to see your doctor.
    • Community Assistant

    Will his penis be the first thing that's been inside your vagina? It will be easier if it's not, whether that's your fingers, his, or something else.

    You may also find it easier if you guide his penis to the right place.
    • #2

    took me a few attempts, i kept going soft LOL and once i finally got it in i went soft again. i blame the girl....
    • #3

    Too many times! We eventually broke up (not for that reason) and then a year later we slept together for the first time once I had lost my virginity
    • #4

    Yeah sometimes its the person, never worked for me and my ex, but then met someone who was more on my level and it worked. Intimacy helps, liking the same things , experimenting etc
    • #5

    I tried to have sex (for the first time) tonight but ended up bleeding after foreplay (not menstruating) and shaking uncontrollably. Is this a normal thing for first timers?
    • #6

    Yup it's normal, took me abut 3 times haha!
    • #7

    I got it in the first time

    Many couples face this problem ,Don't worry everything will be ok.
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