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ARRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGH! need to let some steam out!
My boyfriend came down to visit me on Saturday and stayed until Monday.
On Sunday night I got really drunk and I wanted some affection of him cos he didn't give me any the whole day. I think he was tired and hungover. So yeah at night time, i tried to get him to kiss me and do other stuff but he wouldn't which i felt very annoyed about but because we were both drunk it went into a massive argument then i said to him it was over...! Argh anyway he said he is going to walk out and i said no just go back to sleep so we did.
In the morning we were fine, hugged and kissed and everything I walked him back to the station, and we were holding hands he kissed me goodbye and told me to text him later, I did at a quite late time. He text me back and said that he will call me tomorrow, and he never did. Ive been waiting today, I know he is busy, he got his retake exams for university, so is revising really hard for it. It's in 12 days time! But he has been on facebook but yet, still can't be bothered to contact me! I'm just annoyed!
On Sunday night I got really drunk and I wanted some affection of him cos he didn't give me any the whole day. I think he was tired and hungover. So yeah at night time, i tried to get him to kiss me and do other stuff but he wouldn't which i felt very annoyed about but because we were both drunk it went into a massive argument then i said to him it was over...! Argh anyway he said he is going to walk out and i said no just go back to sleep so we did.
In the morning we were fine, hugged and kissed and everything I walked him back to the station, and we were holding hands he kissed me goodbye and told me to text him later, I did at a quite late time. He text me back and said that he will call me tomorrow, and he never did. Ive been waiting today, I know he is busy, he got his retake exams for university, so is revising really hard for it. It's in 12 days time! But he has been on facebook but yet, still can't be bothered to contact me! I'm just annoyed!
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Agreed, stop bothering just because you need attention. I know what he's going through with uni retakes atm (mine are september 5th), and to be honest he needs space to revise, not to be made to feel guilty at your apparent cries for love.
He's probably just busy. I wouldn't think too much of it. He'll probably call you later 
To be honest, it doesn't really sound like he's done anything wrong. You got in a drunken pissy with him when he had used his time and money to come and see you when he has important exams coming up, I think he should be annoyed at you. If you're so desperate to speak to him, why don't you just ring him instead.
why dont you contact him? dah
blackswan
why dont you contact him? dah
Because he said he will call me! I'm not going to be the one always contacting me. Also I've got retakes but I can make time for him, he is just doing it for me!
If he's doing his uni retakes, then you've got to give him space. Step back and tell him that you understand he's busy and under a lot of pressure at the mo but that you're there for him. Be supportive, and not too demanding. If you're feeling like he isn't given you enough affection/attention then why not organise a special night for just the two of you after his retakes. He'll probably be more in the mood then.
blackswan
why dont you contact him? dah
Why do that when you can just let the man do it? There's phone credit at stake here!
I don't think I'm being selfish at all. It just annoys me that he can be bothered to text other people but not his own girlfriend, when he said he will!
You never said he was texting other people? 
Quite frankly: so what? He obviously is making his education his priority here, which is the sensible thing to do. Just because you don't want to put yours first, doesn't mean that he shouldn't either. You really need to respect that.
Dream catch me
Also I've got retakes but I can make time for him, he is just doing it for me!
Quite frankly: so what? He obviously is making his education his priority here, which is the sensible thing to do. Just because you don't want to put yours first, doesn't mean that he shouldn't either. You really need to respect that.
bunthulhu
You never said he was texting other people?
Well he just messaged a girl on facebook asking if she had any credit so they can talk properly! charming!
bunthulhu
I added to my above post by the way.
How do you know he doesn't need to talk to her about work or something important?
How do you know he doesn't need to talk to her about work or something important?
Because he would of said. I know he doesn't need to talk about work or anything important!
Stop being so possesive, no wonder he's avoiding contacting you.
(to be fair though this is only making the problem worse, but you should still cut him some slack OP)
(to be fair though this is only making the problem worse, but you should still cut him some slack OP)
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