Pissing people off is fun
a lot of first years i know at loughborough werent into the being drunk & having sex with randomers BUT, there are quite a few.
its not all about drink and sex but a lot of people do see it that way
Aye, but that's Loughborough, mind...
depends who you hang round with IMO if you fall in with the "get wrecked everynight" brigade, then it will be what it says on the tin. There will be just as many who dont go out at all, and just as many who go out 1/2 times a week.
just choose who you mingle with wisely in freshers week/first few weeks (depending on your viewpoint!)
ok,to everyone here,what is your opinion about my questions below..
01. do you think that having sex before marriage is necessary??
02.for the male like me, do you want to marry with a woman that already lost their virginity to another MEN??
03. does sex shows how much we love our partner or it just a must-do-things for us??? (e.g if we are coupled, so sex is a must but then it doesn'n means that i love you very much... owh, pity of you then)
this is an open-minded discussions as this thing seeing in the different angles in different countries which have different cultures..
It's definitely about more than just that...but I do find sex and drinking are very stress relieving. Still, at least half of my energy is on my course, and that's where the stress comes from (work hard, play hard is such a cliche but quite true for a lot of people). I've never been in the "let's get hammered and have sex with anyone with a face" crew, that'd be reasonably unfulfilling I feel. Having said that, plenty of people love it.
Why has the trend of discussion gone toward drinking and sex meaning your work gets pushed out? Surely its more you do the (perhaps minimum) amount of work and then its up to you what you do in your spare time? You can’t get away with doing nothing at all, you get moaned at or called in and told to pull your finger out.
I think what people are saying is that you can spend your free time getting pissed and looking for sex or you can spend it in a uni society or whatever. My 4 top goals are probably to work, drink a lot, have quite a lot of sex and play a lot of sport. I'll find out what order that takes when I get there, but either way work is going to form a fairly large part of what I do, which I don’t mind because I enjoy history, its not as if it’s a grind like in college.
For people who are saying you get 'life experience' or whatever, you don’t go to uni with the goal of acquiring it, as though you can join a club that teaches you it. You get life experience from doing the things while your there - like juggling mates/women and generally being slightly more independent and responsible for yourself than you were at college.
My perceptions of most people at uni was that they were mostly obsessed with geting drunk and getting laid.
That's one of the reasons why I dropped out. There are so many vacuous people in uni.
I bet that taught them a lesson, eh?