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    I'm in my first year of uni and I have been going to uni for a few weeks now. The thing is there is this guy in my course that I like and find attractive but I'm too scared to approach him as we have never spoken before nor made proper eye contact.
    I never have approached a guy that I like even as a friend so I'm not sure how to go about this. What if he doesn't like me because I've noticed him but he hasn't noticed me..

    What should I do? He's in the same lectures and practicals and seminars as me...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm in my first year of uni and I have been going to uni for a few weeks now. The thing is there is this guy in my course that I like and find attractive but I'm too scared to approach him as we have never spoken before nor made proper eye contact.
    I never have approached a guy that I like even as a friend so I'm not sure how to go about this. What if he doesn't like me because I've noticed him but he hasn't noticed me..

    What should I do? He's in the same lectures and practicals and seminars as me...
    Just forget about it if you're too scared lol
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    there's no way he likes you lol... he doesn't even know you
    but this doesn't mean you can't approach him
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    (Original post by CorpusLuteum)
    Just forget about it if you're too scared lol
    But he sits in mainly with a row of boys and he's never alone also he comes across as shy too..
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    there's no way he likes you lol... he doesn't even know you
    but this doesn't mean you can't approach him
    Savage af.
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    LOL just wing it because YOLO
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What if he doesn't like me because I've noticed him but he hasn't noticed me..
    So what if he doesn't like you? You move on and find another guy to crush on. At least you'll know, right?
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    Savage af.
    it's the truth lol
    from how she's described the situation, the guy has absolutely no idea who she is
    but come on, it's not like u should only talk to ppl who already like u
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    (Original post by UWS)
    So what if he doesn't like you? You move on and find another guy to crush on. At least you'll know, right?
    How am I meant to approach him?
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    it's the truth lol
    from how she's described the situation, the guy has absolutely no idea who she is
    but come on, it's not like u should only talk to ppl who already like u
    True.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How am I meant to approach him?
    You could try sit next to him in lectures and then say hello, then get to know him.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    You could try sit next to him in lectures and then say hello, then get to know him.
    and what if he actually wants to pay attention to the lecture?
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    it's the truth lol
    from how she's described the situation, the guy has absolutely no idea who she is
    but come on, it's not like u should only talk to ppl who already like u
    That's true lol
    When I started my first year like 2 days ago and honestly speaking I didn't know a single person there :hide:
    Just had to slide myself into a convo LOL and drop my opinions here and there if I like the topic and tbh that's how you get to know People if you talk to them and make friends
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    and what if he actually wants to pay attention to the lecture?
    She can speak to him before it starts or during the break.
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    and what if he actually wants to pay attention to the lecture?
    She could sit next to him in lectures and when the lecturer isn't talk she could say hello and ask a question about the work pretending she doesn't get it or something :cool:
    Because we get like 10mins breaks during the lecture if it's a long one
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's true lol
    When I started my first year like 2 days ago and honestly speaking I didn't know a single person there :hide:
    Just had to slide myself into a convo LOL and drop my opinions here and there if I like the topic and tbh that's how you get to know People if you talk to them and make friends
    OMG i forgot to tell you about my absolutely amazing tip for approaching ppl
    ...although it usually works best for befriending them, not flirting
    give 'em food
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    (Original post by FemaleBo55)
    She could sit next to him in lectures and when the lecturer isn't talk she could say hello and ask a question about the work pretending she doesn't get it or something :cool:
    Because we get like 10mins breaks during the lecture if it's a long one
    How sly.
    *takes notes*

    jkjk
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    (Original post by UWS)
    She can speak to him before it starts or during the break.
    I'll try that thank you but last time I saw him in a lecture room he sat down on the end of the row and that row only had 2seats. Hopefully he sits else where.. and no one had taken that space ..
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    (Original post by UWS)
    She can speak to him before it starts or during the break.
    and ask him what? i'm pretty sure op is looking for something more specific.. give her an idea

    (Original post by FemaleBo55)
    She could sit next to him in lectures and when the lecturer isn't talk she could say hello and ask a question about the work pretending she doesn't get it or something :cool:
    Because we get like 10mins breaks during the lecture if it's a long one
    yeah, don't really think op should pretend not to understand stuff just to get the opportunity to ask him sth
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'll try that thank you but last time I saw him in a lecture room he sat down on the end of the row and that row only had 2seats. Hopefully he sits else where.. and no one had taken that space ..
    so what if it only has 2 seats
    it's the best thing that could happen to you
    just go and sit there lol
 
 
 
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