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    Ok so im a guy whos 22 years old and these days im feeling overly insecure about my height 5ft9 i know that im not overly short but seeing these teenagers who are 6ft kills my confidence ive only had about 3 girlfriends my whole life and for the past 2 years have been single im really starting to think that girls wont give me a chance and will judge me on my height how do i stop feeling sorry for myself???
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    (Original post by Stinglikeabee)
    Ok so im a guy whos 22 years old and these days im feeling overly insecure about my height 5ft9 i know that im not overly short but seeing these teenagers who are 6ft kills my confidence ive only had about 3 girlfriends my whole life and for the past 2 years have been single im really starting to think that girls wont give me a chance and will judge me on my height how do i stop feeling sorry for myself???
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    (Original post by Stinglikeabee)
    Ok so im a guy whos 22 years old and these days im feeling overly insecure about my height 5ft9 i know that im not overly short but seeing these teenagers who are 6ft kills my confidence ive only had about 3 girlfriends my whole life and for the past 2 years have been single im really starting to think that girls wont give me a chance and will judge me on my height how do i stop feeling sorry for myself???
    You arent really going to change your height though, ynless you have an operation, take a box with you everywhere or go around on stilts. You arent losing out because you are 5'9" as that's hardly a dwarf.

    Perhaps you need to work on your self confidence and girls notice that way more than any height issues. Focus on the real issue.
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    5'9 is tall
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    as a 5ft11 Girl 5ft9 isnt bad
    5ft7 and under is a problem for me personally
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    I'm 5 foot and 1 inch and a half.

    That does not matter, and if you don't have anyone or haven't had anyone in a while than its because its not the right time, it has nothing to do with your height but like someone said, if you are looking insecure girls are going to notice that, just embrace it
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    (Original post by saraxh)
    5'9 is tall
    really? what is 6 feet then? how tall are you?
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    5ft9 is ideal to me. Not too short but not so tall that you end up resembling a daddy long legs. Guys who are 6 ft odd often tend to look a little out of proportion, either long legged and gangly or long backed.
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    5ft 9 is not too bad tbh! Taller than most women i think

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    (Original post by KnowledgeIsBest)
    really? what is 6 feet then? how tall are you?
    I'm 5'5. I know a guy who's 6'4(I think). I had to look up to talk to him.
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    (Original post by saraxh)
    I'm 5'5. I know a guy who's 6'4(I think). I had to look up to talk to him.
    wow.
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    (Original post by saraxh)
    I'm 5'5. I know a guy who's 6'4(I think). I had to look up to talk to him.
    https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...d0225d9f9e.jpg
    :cry2:
 
 
 
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