Hi, I'm in Year 12 and I started a new school this September. From the very first day, an autistic boy in the secondary school has been stalking me, and it's driving me crazy. At first it was funny, because he would always say hi to me though I had no clue who he was. My friends and I would laugh at him because we didn't realise he was autistic at that time, and maybe his friends dared him to talk to me. Then it started getting a bit worrying: every day he would wait for me at the school entrance to follow me all the way to the sixth form block, where only sixth form students are allowed, and then be kicked out. Our 'conversations' range from him saying 'how are you' to 'what do you think about me' and 'I really like you'. Recently, he would look through the windows of the sixth form block and wave at me while everyone laughs at him. At first I would try to give him hints that I find him annoying, like giving one word answers. I even blatantly said 'I think you're annoying' when he asked me what I think of him. Today was the first time I told him to go away and to stop following me because I don't like being followed, but he claimed, word for word, that he will 'never ever stop following me' which is super creepy!
At lunch today, I sitting with my friends when he came up to me. We all told him to go away but he refused. Even the teachers told him to leave us alone but he completely ignored them and continued to try to talk to me. My friend let me switch seats so I wasn't sitting next to him, but he just stared at me from the other side of the table. I told my teacher about him. She said he even wrote piece of English work about me, his 'new year 12 best friend'. Half my name was in it because he couldn't spell my full name, and now I realised why one day he came with pen and paper asking me how to spell my name, but I refused to tell him. I don't know what to do! I can't be full out mean to him because he's autistic, in fact I've already been meaner than I should have been. I don't know how to handle autistic people. I'm afraid that if I'm horrible that he might take up self harming or be scarred for life. But I really need to get rid of him, not only for my sake but for his too! He seeks me out during school and it's disrupting his education as well. Please help me!