What the hell should I do

If she's got a bf...then don't get involved at all. If you love her then that's gonna be hard, but either she finishes with him to be with you, or she stays with him and you get on with your own life. Don't let her string you along...it can only end badly

If it was me, I wouldn't make a move till the boyfriend is out of the way (harsh, but i couldn't live with myself liking someone and going for it if they had a partner). I know it's difficult but she can't love you yet be with another guy, that's just not on.

And if you really love each other, then why not arrange something? Sorry if it feels i'm being nosey but how far away exactly do you live from each other?

I know that this is probalby a futile thing but when you look like me, if some one says those faitful words of "I love you" then you jump to it. I just have o idea how to tackle this, I know i shouldnt bother but I just do

Well if you love each other then isn't it worth the bother?

I know that this is probalby a futile thing but when you look like me, if some one says those faitful words of "I love you" then you jump to it. I just have o idea how to tackle this, I know i shouldnt bother but I just do

Have more confidence in yourself...you shouldn't have to play second fiddle to anyone. If she's going to stay with her bf, then she can't string you along as well. It's one or the other...she can't have it both ways. Also, not to be patronising...but may i ask how old you are?

Have more confidence in yourself...you shouldn't have to play second fiddle to anyone. If she's going to stay with her bf, then she can't string you along as well. It's one or the other...she can't have it both ways. Also, not to be patronising...but may i ask how old you are?

Agreed, Manchester and Sheffield are not that far apart! According to the AA route planner ( sorry had to check it out) they are only 40 miles apart!

15 I realize that i am tather yound and shouldnt really be botherin with this considering i have my GCSE's next year, ive never had confidense in myself ive always been striken down aat most instences.

Like i said before..if this comes out in a patronising way...then I'm sorry and it's not intended, but yeah you are still v young.

Firstly...this means you may not actually be in love. I thought I was at that age as well and looking back what i felt then was nothing to how i've felt about people since...and i still haven't been in love yet! Obviously this isn't necessarily true for you....but it's something to bear in mind.

Secondly...at 15, you've got so much ahead of you. I was never that confident at 15 either...but a levels and 3 years of uni have changed that for you. I know it's hard to believe in yourself and to see past the present...and especially hard when the advice is coming from someone like me that you don't even know....but you have to believe that what you're feeling now you can get over.

As above...don't be strung along by her. I've been there and it hurts a lot...more than if i'd just walked away in the first place.

IMO, it's not stupid to say you're in love at 15 - yeah you are considered "young and a little inexperienced" but i think by this age you know what you feel!

But Confused_soul, we can only give you advice/opinions. if you feel that strongly - go for it and talk to her about it.

Have you met her in person. Or was it an over MSN: 'z0mg I luff yhoo lolz'?

I know she likes me, hell she sys she loves me, but she lives in another part of the country (i dont know how toget there ) and she has a boyfriend, yet as i said she says she loves me and i feel the same bout her. what the hell should i do?