There's a guy I've been friends with for about 10 months. He's now moved abroad (this week) but when he was in England, it was always a bit confusing. He was interested when we first met, then said he didn't want a relationship as he knew he'd be leaivng, but liked me, then said he only saw me as a friend, and then changed his mind and said he did like me and wanted to spend some time together befor ehe went, then after said it was a mistake and he only saw me as a friend. Nevertheless, we slept together a few times.
He maintained from around May-late August that he only saw me as a friend ,and I started to move on and forget my feelings.
I saw him about a month ago as he came to town, and after we'd said goodbye, he was texting and calling me quite a lot, both times. He sent me 100 texts over that weekend.
He took his flight over from this town, and I offered t otake him to the airport as his other friend couldn't go. He said that he was scared it'd depress him, having to say goodbye., and I said, well it's only me, who cares, kind of thing, and he said, no I care.
I ended up seeing him off quickly with other friends, which was nice. I've also noticed that whenever he's with me, he is always very red-faced, something i'd never seen before. He's always said that he finds me very attractive etc. but that he didn't have feelings.
I don't think he does have feelings, but 2 of my friends are convinced of it, based on what I've said, and that he just doesn't want to admit it becuase he's left. What do other people think based on this? Sorry if it's not much to go off.
I should also mention that even though we no longer really see each other in person, we speak online pretty much every day, and have done since January. I'd like to go and visit him out there when I have the money, but not sure if he'll find it weird or not...
He likes your personality but not appearance OR he likes your appearance but not personality.