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Met this guy on the internet, he turned a bit nasty but now wants me back. Help!

kitty_koo

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Reply 1

ßlαcksωαn

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He got you where he wanted, he felt comfortable to ask for sexy pics, you pulled back, he got worried he'd scared you off, he makes a fake apology to get you right back where he wants.

your decision. (yes, in this case)

thinks start out good again, he's great, time goes on, the pics topic comes up again, you trust him more now, you send more pics, you see he's a total jerk eventually, you try and block him, he gets freaky...lotsa sms's and phone calls and stuff, you regret ever doing it.

That's my prediction, take it or leave it :smile:

Reply 2

HeadShock

blackswan

He got you where he wanted, he felt comfortable to ask for sexy pics, you pulled back, he got worried he'd scared you off, he makes a fake apology to get you right back where he wants.

your decision. (yes, in this case)

thinks start out good again, he's great, time goes on, the pics topic comes up again, you trust him more now, you send more pics, you see he's a total jerk eventually, you try and block him, he gets freaky...lotsa sms's and phone calls and stuff, you regret ever doing it.

That's my prediction, take it or leave it :smile:

i second that, if he trys to push once then he will try again...its a symtom of his personality.

Reply 3

bunthulhu

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I think you should just block him on msn and delete his number. You can do better. :smile:

Reply 4

Zebedee Funk

I agree...sounds like he's going to be all nice again for a while to get you comfortable with him. Then he'll ask again and push you more. The fact that he said he was spontaneous and you were the one being awkward suggests he was heavily laying on the guilt trip and knew exactly what he was doing. Reminds me of a book about guys who specialise in picking up women...would get the women to say they were spontaneous...and then use their words against them if they refused to do anything. Don't fall into the same trap!

My advice is steer clear...he'll almost certainly try again and next time you may feel you have more invested and won't be able to say no, which is probably what he's banking on

Reply 5

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Firstly, you don't know this guy, so you don't owe him anything. Secondly, there are so many people out there that giving it a miss on this guy will not make a difference at all. And thirdly, he's already shown himself to be a fairly pushy character and someone who wants to jump straight to 'superhot' pics even though you're not comfortable with that. Just block him and start talking to someone else. :smile:

Reply 6

randomgirl

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Forget about him. I agree with Blackswan.

Reply 7

lea164

You deserve better. If he turned nasty over these picture then he'll probably do it again. It's probably best to cut all contact with him now, before he starts demanding anything else from you.

Reply 8

generalebriety

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blackswan

He got you where he wanted, he felt comfortable to ask for sexy pics, you pulled back, he got worried he'd scared you off, he makes a fake apology to get you right back where he wants.

your decision. (yes, in this case)

thinks start out good again, he's great, time goes on, the pics topic comes up again, you trust him more now, you send more pics, you see he's a total jerk eventually, you try and block him, he gets freaky...lotsa sms's and phone calls and stuff, you regret ever doing it.

That's my prediction, take it or leave it :smile:

Reply 9

Minta2

I agree with all the above advice to cut contact with this guy. Also, please wait a while before giving your personal phone number and msn address to strangers on dating websites. Communicating through the site itself is so much safer as sadly it's true that there are some weird people out there it's especially easy for people to hide things about themselves in cyberspace.

Reply 10

Libbelle

Unfortunately you will come across quite a few guys asking for 'hot' and 'superhot' pics online but like everyone else said just forget about him, who knows what else he would ask of you down the line and you might get into a situation you can't handle.

Reply 11

Sarky

18

All this since last week?

Dump the chump.

Reply 12

wear_a_condom

this virtual guy sounds a bit pervy

Reply 13

Meep!

9

CLASSIC internet wierdo, forget him, he really doesn't sound like a nice guy.
Also, in the future, if I were you I'd hold back at least my phone number for a tad longer, msn not so much, they're easily blocked.

Reply 14

PhilMc

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wear_a_condom

this virtual guy sounds a bit pervy

My thoughts exactly. I'd leave it, he just wants pictures IMO.

Reply 15

username47781

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Ah come on, he's not a great guy if he's pressuring you like that.

Reply 16

~ems~

As someone who didn't block a guy from over the internet (that I admittedly knew through a friend anyway) that made me feel uncomfortable, it will only grow overtime to him being worse/you getting fed up and blocking him for good and wishing you'd done it from the start to avoid all the rubbish in between. So you may aswell block him now.

Reply 17

Just some guy

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Well now you know his real personality; if he plays nice with you it's just a facade so you'll do what he wants. Forget it and try again with somebody else.

Reply 18

daggy

Hmm, seems to me the fact your asking when you've already spoken to him again means you've decided to speak to him anyway.

However, hopefully all the posts in this thread will persuade you to get rid.

Forget about the pictures for one second.
I'll make a bit of an assumption here, if your on a dating site the chances are you'd be willing to meet people from the net.

If this guy is pushy over msn when he doesn't get what he wants, think how that transcends into real life.

Don't take the risk, there are plenty more fish in the sea.. la dee dah deee dah

P.s. good on you for not backing down to him when you didn't feel comfortable :smile:

Reply 19

Sticky

It sounds like he was whacking one off when asking for those hot and superhot photos. :rolleyes:

This is what has clearly put me off meeting people online. I'm sure you're a nice girl but honestly, in real life would you put up with this kind of behaviour? The rules change too much and I find the whole thing hypocritical i.e. the same people who will blank someone out as soon as they talk to them in a club, are the ones who will let people get away with murder online.

Met this guy on the internet, he turned a bit nasty but now wants me back. Help!

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