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Reply 1

Reassure him that he has nothing to worry about. Tell him that his insecurities are causing troubles in the relationship and could lead to him driving you away. Talk to him.

Reply 2

yea talk to him. find out why he is so insecure, it could stem from something.
however dont stay with him if it cant be resolved, being in a relationship thats so paranoid isnt worth it

Reply 3

You should definitely talk to him about it-it's very destructive behaviour on his part.

Incidentally, what's with the capitals on half the words?

Reply 4

I have a similar problem :' { except my problem is that 'N' doesn't trust me. I had some difficulties with 'Y' and 'S' for a while but we got there in the end. 'E' was always fine, one of my favourites along with 'A' and 'G'

Reply 5

Type properly and your halfway there.

Reply 6

Change his nappy

Reply 7

PhilMc
Type properly and your halfway there.
I agree but you shouldn't be talking :rolleyes:

Reply 8

PhilMc
Type properly and your halfway there.

Whoops.

OP: sounds to me like he doesn't trust your friends, not you? :s-smilie:

Reply 9

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Reply 10

Have you told him how you feel about him questioning you all the time, I have been in your shoes so I know how it feels. Tell him to grow up or you will end it. No trust = bad relationship.

Reply 11

myie hAVeeVe*

talk to the guy, and like someone else said, seems more like he doesn't trust the other guys than you.

Reply 12

generalebriety
Whoops.

OP: sounds to me like he doesn't trust your friends, not you? :s-smilie:


it's an insecurity issue mr billy.

The trust issue lies between them two, and him thinking that because her girlfriend is given lots of oppurtunities to cheat, that she will end up doing that.

Heck with my girlfriend i could trust her whilst not trusting her male friends! I mght not trust male friends of hers to make advances but i could trust my gf to push the guy away! I think thats the concern of his.

I mean if you cant trust the one that you love, then you dont stand much of a chance! And it's strange because this guy has no reason (yet) to suspect that his girlfriend will ever cheat on him!


talk to him and re-assure him.

Reply 13

8urtay
it's an insecurity issue mr billy.

No, you're right, I didn't read the post properly. Sorry.

Reply 14

8urtay
it's an insecurity issue mr billy.

The trust issue lies between them two, and him thinking that because her girlfriend is given lots of oppurtunities to cheat, that she will end up doing that.

Heck with my girlfriend i could trust her whilst not trusting her male friends! I mght not trust male friends of hers to make advances but i could trust my gf to push the guy away! I think thats the concern of his.

I mean if you cant trust the one that you love, then you dont stand much of a chance! And it's strange because this guy has no reason (yet) to suspect that his girlfriend will ever cheat on him!


talk to him and re-assure him.


Quite.

O.P. Please, for the love of ****, talk to him before coming here.

Reply 15

Thanks For The Replies.. I think hes starting to trust me. ive talked to him loads about it in the last few days and threatened to leave him if he dont get his act together and TRUST me.

I Hope It Works Out..x

AllMyLoveToAllTheReplierssxx

Thanks

xx Miss NOOO Name xx lol x