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    Im in a new relationship with someone Im looking to spend the rest of my life with but I keep getting this voice in my head telling me I'm not good enough. She sees me as this confident person but inside SOMETIMES I feel like she deserves better. I know how she feels about me but I cant help but feel like she expects more from me and I dont want to dwell on this constant feeling and ruin what we have. Im not sure how to eradicate it. Help
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    Im in a new relationship with someone Im looking to spend the rest of my life with but I keep getting this voice in my head telling me I'm not good enough. She sees me as this confident person but inside SOMETIMES I feel like she deserves better. I know how she feels about me but I cant help but feel like she expects more from me and I dont want to dwell on this constant feeling and ruin what we have. Im not sure how to eradicate it. Help
    How do you know you wnat to be with someone for the rest of your life if its a new relationship? You dont know her yet.

    You sound like you have low self esteem. Go and see your GP and they can arrange some counseling or do some research on strageies to deal with it. just google its very common and its just about building self confidence.

    Talk to your partner not about what you said here about not being good enough but about what is importnat for her and what she appreciates from a bf, then at least you have a clear target.
 
 
 
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