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help- mates birthday/clubbing

please keep this as annoymous because i know people on this forum that i dont want to know that i'm writing about this.

well the thing is, its my mates 18th birthday today. I havent seen her in quite a while. She invited me to do something for her birthday a while ago and i said ok. A few days ago she said she was going clubbing with some of her other mates and would i come. i said yes. Well she has only just let me know what time and where were meeting and this is going to be at about 11:15pm at the club because she has to go somewhere before.

Well i havent been clubbing before :redface: have never met any of her other mates and havent seen her in a while. if i go i would have to travel up there somehow on my own as i cant get a lift. I just dont know what to do, i feel bad if i say i'm not going because its her birthday but i dont want to travel on my own and think its abit late personally:redface: my parents dont really want me to go and i'm feeling really tired as it is.

she has asked me before to go clubbing with her but i couldnt because i was always working or busy. i dont want her to think i'm just making alot of excuses and let her down on her birthday :frown: . should i just go? or text her and say i'll see her another time :confused: :redface: