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Is "accidental penetration" rape?

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    To make this short, I'll bullet point this situation..

    1. A man and woman are in bed, kissing and such.
    2. The girl made it VERY clear she did not want to have sex with the man
    3. She however, agreed to him rubbing his penis on her vagina
    4. They do that, but at some point, it slips inside and the man does not stop having sex...
    5. The woman is unaware that it slipped inside but is informed by the man, after he ejaculates, that he did penetrate her.

    IS THIS RAPE? What are your thoughts?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    To make this short, I'll bullet point this situation..

    1. A man and woman are in bed, kissing and such.
    2. The girl made it VERY clear she did not want to have sex with the man
    3. She however, agreed to him rubbing his penis on her vagina
    4. They do that, but at some point, it slips inside and the man does not stop having sex...
    5. The woman is unaware that it slipped inside but is informed by the man, after he ejaculates, that he did penetrate her.

    IS THIS RAPE? What are your thoughts?
    I would probably say yes but then again I don't know really it's hard to say


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    2. The girl made it VERY clear she did not want to have sex with the man
    3. She however, agreed to him rubbing his penis on her vagina
    Who TF does that :rofl:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    To make this short, I'll bullet point this situation..

    1. A man and woman are in bed, kissing and such.
    2. The girl made it VERY clear she did not want to have sex with the man
    3. She however, agreed to him rubbing his penis on her vagina
    4. They do that, but at some point, it slips inside and the man does not stop having sex...
    5. The woman is unaware that it slipped inside but is informed by the man, after he ejaculates, that he did penetrate her.

    IS THIS RAPE? What are your thoughts?
    I would say yes as he carried on most likely fully aware he was inside her, and he knew her wishes.
    HOWEVER its a grey area as usually you can tell if the male is inside or not, so its a difficult one really
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Who TF does that :rofl:
    The woman was coerced.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The woman was coerced.
    So, she had the balls (not literally) to stand up for herself and say no to sex, yet actual penis to vagina contact is still acceptable? :rofl: In case you're actually being serious, no, I don't think a girl could agree to have a guy putting his penis in contact with her vagina and then shout rape when a bit accidentally gets inside.
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    expect a lawsuit fam

    on a serious note its hard to say, i mean how could she have not known that it was inside her and even after the person in question ejaculated she had no knowledge of penetration :dontknow:
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    Yes. Because she clearly stated her boundaries. Agreeing to sexual contact is not the same as agreeing that anything goes. If I agree to vaginal penetration does not mean I agree to oral or anal penetration.

    Also, it's not an accident if you carry on doing it.

    Finally, I'm also pretty sure you can tell when it's in so that bit confuses me.

    I assume this scenario is not factual.
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    Remember don't drop the soap once you're in jail

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    To make this short, I'll bullet point this situation..

    1. A man and woman are in bed, kissing and such.
    2. The girl made it VERY clear she did not want to have sex with the man
    3. She however, agreed to him rubbing his penis on her vagina
    4. They do that, but at some point, it slips inside and the man does not stop having sex...
    5. The woman is unaware that it slipped inside but is informed by the man, after he ejaculates, that he did penetrate her.

    IS THIS RAPE? What are your thoughts?
    Yes it is definite rape; there's evidentially no consent mentioned in this passage regarding penetration - the man should've stopped.
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    I swear I'm leaving this website...
    Noooo! do you want me to make a thread about puppies to make you feel better?
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    Ladies and gentlemen , The Student Room :congrats:
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    Noooo! do you want me to make a thread about puppies to make you feel better?
    Aww. But seriously, it's because of **** like the OP that people don't take actual rape victims seriously. :|
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    To make this short, I'll bullet point this situation..

    1. A man and woman are in bed, kissing and such.
    2. The girl made it VERY clear she did not want to have sex with the man
    3. She however, agreed to him rubbing his penis on her vagina
    4. They do that, but at some point, it slips inside and the man does not stop having sex...
    5. The woman is unaware that it slipped inside but is informed by the man, after he ejaculates, that he did penetrate her.

    IS THIS RAPE? What are your thoughts?
    Yes.
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    I swear I'm leaving this website...
    These people be crazy...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    3. She however, agreed to him rubbing his penis on her vagina
    What??

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    4. They do that, but at some point, it slips inside and the man does not stop having sex...
    So it sounds like he was trying to have sex with her.

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    5. The woman is unaware that it slipped inside but is informed by the man, after he ejaculates, that he did penetrate her.
    It must have been a small penis for that to happen. Well I'm sure it was 'accidental' considering you only told her AFTER you ejaculated.

    Also this story makes no sense whatsoever, are you saying you ejaculated instantly? Are you saying that it just randomly slipped inside and then continued to have sex WHILST her not noticing? It don't add up bro :holmes:
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    Weird part of TSR.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    These people be crazy...

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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    PROSM
 
 
 
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