Stuck In The Middle...

Right where to begin.

I am basically in a relationship with this girl i knew from my old school before i went to sixth form. She knew i liked her a lot and we always used toflirt before we got with each other, and everything has been okay so far. Thing is now, i have kinda drifted on to liking this other girl from my new school. We have stuff in common and we always flirt when we are arond, mainly started because of me.

Thing is i am not really stopping myself because things haven't been going as well as i thought with my girlfriend. We always used to text and call each other and meet up when we could and all, but now its like complete blankage. I try to talk and text but i get **** all from her nowadays. Don't know what the problem is and i have asked but she is just blankng me out as usual. My pet peeve with girls is them playing games, and if she is with me right now because im kinda in a confused state of mind, then the thing we have is kinda gone.

The new girl however seems to be more responsive to me and i enjoy being with her when i can. Went to party last week when i saw her, and i could have kissed her and gone on if i wanted to, but the though of cheating on my girlfriend just stopped me from doing so. Even though she is treating me like a bitch, i still like her a lot and i want things to work. Does that sound stupid?

Or should i just try things with this new girl tha im beginning to like more at the moment?

Because i dont want to waste time being played around like a tennis ball and just want to have a fun relationship. Anyways im drifitng on, ill close it all up :smile:

Thanks for listening.

Reply 1

username47781

20

YOu need to talk to your girlfriend and ask each other whether you still want to be together, before you do anything with this other girl.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

hmm kinda hard that, when she dont listen 2 me.... :frown:

May as well get with other girl lol

Reply 3

MurderGBush

Go for the other girl, you obv don't care enough to go back to ur gf.

Reply 4

73337

18

Be more assertive, ask your gf directly. Then, go from there.

Reply 5

Christina

You need to say to your girlfriend "we need to talk.. seriously" and explain things , if the result is to break up then so be it, if not then you can work on things maybe.

Reply 6

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3

How can you call someone who ignores you your girlfriend? How long has she been ignoring you for?

Reply 7

Innuendo_anonymous

I'd say that you and your gf meet up (Better than the phone, neither of you can just put the phone down then) and tell her that you feel like she doesnt seem to be making an effort or however you feel she's letting you/relationship down. And then see what happens. If you decide to break up, its just how things are and you have to move on. But both of you may want the relationship to work and you just go bit by bit building it up to make the relationship you both wanted.

Good Luck :smile:

Reply 8

username70704

I'd say talk to your current girlfirend about why she has been blanking you becasue you say that you don't know what the problem is. You say you want this relationship to work so have a proper chat about you both want in the relationship. The if things do not work out, you have the freedom to be with this new girl.

Hope this helps :smile:

Reply 9

FCabinet34x72

1

I Should talk with them both , dont let your current gf keep blanking your!

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

shuv

I'd say talk to your current girlfirend about why she has been blanking you becasue you say that you don't know what the problem is. You say you want this relationship to work so have a proper chat about you both want in the relationship. The if things do not work out, you have the freedom to be with this new girl.

Hope this helps

Yerrr thats very helpful :smile:

ill take that advice and tanks everyone else :smile:

I'll see what happens with this.

Reply 11

I am HUGE

Anonymous

Right where to begin.

I am basically in a relationship with this girl i knew from my old school before i went to sixth form. She knew i liked her a lot and we always used toflirt before we got with each other, and everything has been okay so far. Thing is now, i have kinda drifted on to liking this other girl from my new school. We have stuff in common and we always flirt when we are arond, mainly started because of me.

Thing is i am not really stopping myself because things haven't been going as well as i thought with my girlfriend. We always used to text and call each other and meet up when we could and all, but now its like complete blankage. I try to talk and text but i get **** all from her nowadays. Don't know what the problem is and i have asked but she is just blankng me out as usual. My pet peeve with girls is them playing games, and if she is with me right now because im kinda in a confused state of mind, then the thing we have is kinda gone.

The new girl however seems to be more responsive to me and i enjoy being with her when i can. Went to party last week when i saw her, and i could have kissed her and gone on if i wanted to, but the though of cheating on my girlfriend just stopped me from doing so. Even though she is treating me like a bitch, i still like her a lot and i want things to work. Does that sound stupid?

Or should i just try things with this new girl tha im beginning to like more at the moment?

Because i dont want to waste time being played around like a tennis ball and just want to have a fun relationship. Anyways im drifitng on, ill close it all up :smile:

Thanks for listening.

Hey, I'm in a pretty similar situation to this and am wondering how things worked out for you. What did you do and what were the results?

thanks :smile:

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