So I was seeing a guy and things were going great until an ex came back into my life who I knew deep down I never really got over (but everyone would constantly tell me I was and that how I could be still into him.) We had a year apart with no contact and then we started talking and getting closer and closer until I he had admitted he wanted to get back with me. I then ended things with the first guy because I knew I wanted my ex.
Things were good we weren't officially together but we were going on dates etc. Last night I asked him if we could be exclusive and he said no because he wasn't ready for that level of commitment. He said he wasn't speaking to anyone else (which I believe as I know he's not that type of person.) So I got a little defensive and it led to a little argument and quite a few tears. He then said he wanted to be with me but was unsure if he was ready to be in a long term relationship especially one that he didn't see ending.
I don't know what to do, I've given him space we are still going to talk but not see each other as we are both going home at some point this week. I can't go through all of this again. I subconsciously waited over a year for him so to hear him say that last night my heart just broke again. I understand he has a lot going on with uni work and finding a job etc but I can't lose him again. What do I do?
I don't know what to do Watch
- 04-10-2016 15:59
- 04-10-2016 16:11
Sounds like he isn't telling the truth, if he really liked you he would at LEAST go ''exclusive''.
What he is saying doesn't match with what he wants.
- 04-10-2016 16:18
- 04-10-2016 17:30
- 04-10-2016 17:50