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hypothetical question

hia, wel if your boyfriend/girlfriend was one of the nicest people you have ever known and they werea bit naive when it came to seeing through others would ou feel angry at them if they went out with a 'friend' of the oppsite sex who fancied them, and always flirts with them even in front of you and is a bit stalker like declaring there love for your partner, and even if your partner insists they just like them as a friend even though they used to flirt with them by msn and text months ago, would you feel jealous/angry/upset ANYTHING ?? i just wnated to know how you felt about this tbh thanks :smile:
Reply 1
candy_kiss
hia, wel if your boyfriend/girlfriend was one of the nicest people you have ever known and they werea bit naive when it came to seeing through others would ou feel angry at them if they went out with a 'friend' of the oppsite sex who fancied them, and always flirts with them even in front of you and is a bit stalker like declaring there love for your partner, and even if your partner insists they just like them as a friend even though they used to flirt with them by msn and text months ago, would you feel jealous/angry/upset ANYTHING ?? i just wnated to know how you felt about this tbh thanks :smile:

Just ask yourself if you trust them, if you do, and really mean it then you have nothing to fear at all.
I wouldn't be angry at my boyfriend because I trust him, but I'd be bloody annoyed at the girl who is flirting with him on msn etc.
Reply 3
Depends, those kind of obssessive people are generally undesirable anyway.

So i'ld just laugh and tease her bout gaining an ugly stalker.
Reply 4
well being honest i wouldn't be angry with him at all but i would explain to him that it makes me feel uncomfortable. despite trusting my other half implicitly i would feel a bit like WTF bitch. i would be quite annoyed with her, maybe have a word with her telling her to back off a bit as i'm not comfortable with the situation...