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Kissing people you don't know in a club

I went out the other day...and ended up kissing this guy who I met that night. This is the first time I've ever done that, I was drunk and he went forward to kiss me and I let him!
I feel so bad about it, but just want reassurance that it doesn't really make me a bad person does it? I know a lot of people who do that and don't even give it a second thought!

Just want your opinions..guys and girls. And have you ever done this before? Guys if a girl kisses you the first time you meet her do you think shes a bit of a um slag to be blunt lol or just a bit of harmless fun?

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Reply 1

Lateralus

1

Its fine by me. Hell, I wish it happens more often. Its just a bit of fun if you ask me.

Reply 2

HereFishyFishy

13

What on earth!? It's fine, you were drunk. Slobber away, if you're single and all!

Reply 3

Dark and Lovely

15

Only if i'm drunk and its rare then....when i'm sober i avoid it....i do not know where their mouth has been-but some people don't give it a second thought and guys and girls never kiss anyone with a cold sore!

Reply 4

simon123

If both people are happy wth it, then its fine, its nothing serious just abit of fun!

Reply 5

Onemandisaster

Yeah, its just a bit of harmless fun. And its a bit of an ego boost for everyone.

Reply 6

Rutter knows best!

12

going straight to hell.

Reply 7

*Tears and Butterflies*

2

Its fine seriously. I've only done it once before, but now I find i'm more controlled even when drunk. Seriously. No one will think youre a slag or anything, unless you start doing it regularly or going futher which i doubt you will as you sound conscientious enough :smile:

Just harmless fun xx

Reply 8

fire2burn

17

If you're single, then what's the harm?

Unless they have something infectious of course...

Reply 9

Goodkat

It's fine just a bit of harmless fun, I used to do it alot when i was single. Ah, the good old days.

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

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Anonymous

I went out the other day...and ended up kissing this guy who I met that night. This is the first time I've ever done that, I was drunk and he went forward to kiss me and I let him!
I feel so bad about it, but just want reassurance that it doesn't really make me a bad person does it?

If you let him and you didn't enjoy it, then that would make you a silly person. Thats all! :smile:

Reply 11

Zoecb

11

Go for it! It's called meeting people...

Reply 12

username94219

0

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Dark and Lovely

Only if i'm drunk and its rare then....when i'm sober i avoid it....i do not know where their mouth has been-but some people don't give it a second thought and guys and girls never kiss anyone with a cold sore!

Im the same also.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

OP

ok so it seems I might just be a little paranoid. I did enjoy it from what I remember anyway..I think he enjoyed it more than I did though lol. Btw yes I am single, so I'm not breaking any rules. This won't be a reg thing..I hope not anyway.

Btw he did ask for my number and I DID give it..but he hasn't rang or anything yet!

Reply 14

Sephiroth

18

Zoecb

Go for it! It's called meeting people...

I'll have to remember that next time I "meet" my straight friends.

Anyway, I agree with those who say there's nothing wrong with it. Although I do question whether it's something I would want to do, even though I have done before. I wouldn't care if they stayed in contact and became friends, but in the majority of cases that doesn't happen.

Reply 15

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Anonymous

Btw he did ask for my number and I DID give it..but he hasn't rang or anything yet!

He might not ring or text at all. It was a drunken thing after all, he might feel exactly the same way as you. I've ignored enough texts or just not rang enough times myself to know that it does happen, some people just aren't looking for anything to happen from a drunken snog - even if they do take your number.

Reply 16

Dark and Lovely

15

rule of thumb if a guy just asks for your number instead of asking to exchange numbers, he's just not that into you (lol satc anyone?)

Reply 17

louisedotcom

13

Well it certainly doesnt make you a bad person, but its not something I would ever do. I never have done it, and even the thought of kissing someone I dont know isnt appealing in the slightest.