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    (Original post by PhilMc)
    I think the only thing that matters here....





    Is that the girl in the video was hot.
    OMG man! I totally agree.
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    As I said earlier, I do have to chuckle at all the males with the "heh no I hates fake breasts, they is SOOO unnatural" guff. As if you can tell the difference. I'm sure you'd turn down a hot woman with a great personality based purely on that alone!

    I can't tell the difference and I'm fairly sure I've seen more than the average teenager (being as I'm ancient and all).

    Please. :rolleyes:
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    The fact you made this post shows you're insecure about looking insecure.
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    I think the OP makes a valid point - to just have had implants and then seen a video like that would be a bit of a downer on anyone's ego!

    and honestly, i applaud women who get implants. Loads of girls mope around complaining about how they're fat, how their ass looks big, how small their boobs look - and how many of them actually go and do something about it? it takes guts to get implants.
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    (Original post by DodgyTrousers)
    As I said earlier, I do have to chuckle at all the males with the "heh no I hates fake breasts, they is SOOO unnatural" guff. As if you can tell the difference.
    Oh you really really can though. They feel completely different. Silicon has no squish. It's like comparing jelly to a jellyfish, texture-wise.
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    (Original post by Zoecb)
    Oh you really really can though. They feel completely different. Silicon has no squish. It's like comparing jelly to a jellyfish, texture-wise.
    silicone is not the only material used for breast implants. saline implants are getting more and more common these days, for practicality reasons as well as the fact that they are more natural seeming than silicone.
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    (Original post by Zoecb)
    Oh you really really can though. They feel completely different. Silicon has no squish. It's like comparing jelly to a jellyfish, texture-wise.
    I doubt that a lot of the guys saying they hate them have actually even felt a pair though, to be honest.
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    Not all of them feel much different at all (as Grace mentions) and a lot of the ridiculous snobbery is probably coming from virgins ironically.

    Were you insecure to get it done? Maybe. Does it matter? No.

    You probably look better, and I imagine it was a hard choice. If you're happier now, screw the rest.
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    Yes I can tell when boobs are fake, even if they're done well. My mate recently went to Ibiza. He sent me a pic of a girl he had sex with. First thing I said was "fake tits". It's just nasty.

    Real boobs jiggle, fake ones don't.

    And I think Jordan is a disgusting example of "tragic plastic". I wouldn't let my dog shag her.

    Anyway the bottom line is yes girls who get implants are more often than not insecure. Probably due to magazine, media and porn influence.
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    Yeah but large boobs can jiggle too much. I can see the appeal of wanting to change one's breasts, I really do. But I wouldn't for a bunch of reasons - I want them to be completely natural for when I have kids and breast-feed; I like that they're squishy; I don't want scars; I don't have spare money for that kind if frivolous decision and also, I'm really not good at irreversible decisions. I have an identity crisis everytime I have a haircut, ffs.
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    (Original post by DodgyTrousers)
    The most important question isn't whether or not it makes you insecure. The most important question is why should you care? If it makes you happier then more power to you. I'd bet you will never find a man who complains about them, despite some of the posturing from 18 year old boys you'll see via the safety of the Internet

    You'll probably get some stick from women honestly, rooted mainly in jealousy. Noone likes their competition improving, take it as a compliment.

    Honestly, so long as you are happier with the way you look, screw what anyone else thinks. For what it's worth, I suspect you'll look better if not just because you aren't cowering from sight now.

    Saying you should avoid such things is like telling men they shouldn't work out and should just stay the shape they're born. Let's face it, if there were easy, painless ways of improving bust size, it would be a common thing, just like makeup.
    That's like saying, anyone who disapproves and think what I've done is a bad idea is just jealous, which is quite frankly not the case. I'm sure that is the case in SOME instances. But you were saying "women" in general, which is just stupid.

    And as for bust size - just cus men would do the same doesn't make it a good thing.

    And as to the OP - yes I think it's a form of insecurity, but then again it's quite natural to care about how people think you look etc. I think it's important to not care too much because in the end, what people think of the way you look does not matter one little bit as long as you're happy with yourself, therefore there's no need for cosmetic surgery/breast implants. On the other hand it's a difficult issue cus so often we'd feel unattractive if we think we had small/ugly breasts cus the media puts so much emphasis on it. It doesn't make breast implants a good idea in my opinion, however I can understand why a woman would want it, I guess.

    In the end, you've done it now. Your confidence shouldn't come from your breasts, at the end of the day, so whether you have implants or not doesn't need to imply anything. And if you really don't want them anymore, take out the silicone then. In the end, if you feel more confident because your breasts are bigger now, then yes you're insecure. If you simply think it's more aesthetic now and you were always confident before, then I guess no, it's not insecurity. But the fact that you're this worried over a video on youtube shows that you either hadn't thought it through properly and/or you're really quite insecure.
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    I didn't mean to imply that every woman who disagrees would be jealous, but you have to admit plenty would be. Social verification and conditioning is a huge part of female interaction. If you don't believe me, look it up.

    The main thrust of that is that she shouldn't let herself get upset over what other people think about it. The thing is, people think all sorts of stuff, and often for reasons that are less than pure or helpful, whether they know the roots of their behaviour or not. If you defer to the judgement of others about things, you end up ping-ponging in between differing extremes while everyone thinks you're wrong.

    Like it or not, none of us have the right to tell her that what she did is wrong, but plenty are trying to.

    All that aside, being insecure in a society that so harshly tries to shove us into mysogynistic advertiser created moulds is hardly a crime. Being truly confident is difficult, and only really comes from continued success at something. Even if she IS insecure, a bunch of 18 year old blokes claiming they are off fake boobs for life, and women harshly judging her because she's not 100% all woman (or whatever reason you invent for it) is not helping her.

    P.S. If the OP needs confirmation, I'll be happy to test said breasts for authenticity :p:
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    I'm a 21 year old full grown hunk of a sexy man FYI :p:

    I guess that's the difference between you and I. You settle for fake, I don't.
    The fact is, the OP asked is she insecure. Everyone says she is. This is evidenced by the fact she felt the need to even make this thread.

    Maybe I'm weird but I love the feel of big, natural tits moving in my hands and responding to my touch. You don't get that with implants.

    You save time, money and happiness when you become happy with who you are. IMO the OP wasted the money on her boobs. Has it made her feel any better? Obviously not. She still has self esteem issues.
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    I don't "settle" for fake, I can just barely tell the difference. It isn't important to me.

    I guess were I a PLAYAH like yourself, who obviously scores every night then I would be more discerning.

    Warning : The above message contains sarcasm. Consume at own risk.
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    (Original post by JacquesNoir)
    Real boobs jiggle, fake ones don't.
    And with one line, your entire argument goes down the toilet. Once again - you can only SEE that they're fake if they meet the criteria that you've set out - unnatural looking and non moving; thus either the result of a bad or deliberately 'fake look' operation. And Jordan isn't exactly the best example of a natural looking boob job is she? What an odd point to make...
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    My point was a lot of guys fancy Jordan and I fail to see the attraction. I prefer the natural look.

    And there are other giveaways to fake boobs. Not just the jiggling. The cleavage, the shape of the breasts etc.

    Anyway I care not what you think. Fake boobs are grotesque. I'd rather go for a bird with natural tits than one with bags of crap shoved inside her.
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    (Original post by jeaniegirl)
    Hi everyone,
    I recently had my boobs done because I was pretty flat. I'm still healing...the surgery was only a month ago. Now I find this video on youtube...


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BtPq0dfAzc


    Is the black guy just being obnoxious or do you think women with implants are really insecure?

    Thanks
    Jeanie

    ps. I would take kiera knightley too !!
    Surely your new boobs will give you a new confidence making you less insecure.

    I do think for someone to spend so much money and go through so much pain to have breast enlargment operations must be insecure otherwise why bother doing it? Unless of course you are some glamour model hoping that boobs the size of beachballs will help your career.

    If someone is still insecure after plastic surgury then I think it's obvious that the problem lies somewhere else.

    I have no problem with ladies wanting to have a boob job if they feel insecure about a small chest and having the op will make them feel a lot more confident but I think it's silly when women go over the top.
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    Does it really matter?
    You feel better now so you don't need to think of the reasons why you got there so much
    There's no harm in getting rid of insecurities
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    The video is funny!
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    i am afraid that u have to refer to your doctor.

    but i can say to u that your own confidence would matter more than your appearance on the sense of beauty.
 
 
 
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