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    right first off, my dad (biological) has been a **** to me most of my life.
    1. ignoring me as a child,
    2. being a s**t to my mom.
    3. single reason y im so Fk'ed up
    4. didnt pay child support so me, my sis, my bro and mom had a hard time when we left.
    5. haven't seen him since i was 14-15 cant remmber (im 18)

    i have recently talked to him on msn and he has invited me to come with him to saudi arabia (qatar) for a year. {theres some clause thing that means he doesnt have to pay taxes abroad, so he becomes a rich *******}

    should i go?
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    (Original post by polljk)
    right first off, my dad (biological) has been a **** to me most of my life.
    1. ignoring me as a child,
    2. being a s**t to my mom.
    3. single reason y im so Fk'ed up
    4. didnt pay child support so me, my sis, my bro and mom had a hard time when we left.
    5. haven't seen him since i was 14-15 cant remmber (im 18)

    i have recently talked to him on msn and he has invited me to come with him to saudi arabia (qatar) for a year. {theres some clause thing that means he doesnt have to pay taxes abroad, so he becomes a rich *******}

    should i go?
    if i was u i won't
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    (Original post by polljk)
    right first off, my dad (biological) has been a **** to me most of my life.
    1. ignoring me as a child,
    2. being a s**t to my mom.
    3. single reason y im so Fk'ed up
    4. didnt pay child support so me, my sis, my bro and mom had a hard time when we left.
    5. haven't seen him since i was 14-15 cant remmber (im 18)

    i have recently talked to him on msn and he has invited me to come with him to saudi arabia (qatar) for a year. {theres some clause thing that means he doesnt have to pay taxes abroad, so he becomes a rich *******}

    should i go?
    Do you want to?
    And if you do, why not go for a visit first?

    Also I am pretty sure Saudi Arabia and Qatar are not the same place
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    (Original post by shushimeng)
    if i was u i won't
    hmm im thinking that but im a very outgoing person and likes to think i will expiereance everything before i die and this would be a place i have never been before. plus i could get the chance to beat the **** outta him
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    How the hell can we possibly answer this question for you? Its so personal, and none of us have experienced what you have. Make your own decisions.
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    (Original post by dinkymints)
    Do you want to?
    And if you do, why not go for a visit first?

    Also I am pretty sure Saudi Arabia and Qatar are not the same place
    he has offerd to let me visit him out there out of his pocket, and is qatar not in saudi?
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    (Original post by imasillynarb)
    How the hell can we possibly answer this question for you? Its so personal, and none of us have experienced what you have. Make your own decisions.
    yes but from what other ppl can tell me i could make a positive desion from it.
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    (Original post by polljk)
    yes but from what other ppl can tell me i could make a positive desion from it.
    What do other people tell you?
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    (Original post by imasillynarb)
    What do other people tell you?
    a few have said go and a few have said stay but i will be moving anyway either this year or the next (step-dads in RAF)
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    (Original post by polljk)
    a few have said go and a few have said stay but i will be moving anyway either this year or the next (step-dads in RAF)
    Yeh this isnt making much sense to me, do what you want, its your life.
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    (Original post by polljk)
    is qatar not in saudi?
    I am 99% sure that it isn't! Although they are *fairly* close together...
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    (Original post by polljk)
    hmm im thinking that but im a very outgoing person and likes to think i will expiereance everything before i die and this would be a place i have never been before. plus i could get the chance to beat the **** outta him
    he is becoming old and now he got no body, he is trying to get closer to u
    maybe i am wrong, like this kinda of dad i will never forgive him
    i will never contact him, never wanna see him again
    well do whatever u think is right
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    (Original post by imasillynarb)
    Yeh this isnt making much sense to me, do what you want, its your life.
    yeah good point. im just trying to make an informed desion.
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    (Original post by shushimeng)
    he is becoming old and now he got no body, he is trying to get closer to u
    maybe i am wrong, like this kinda of dad i will never forgive him
    i will never contact him, never wanna see him again
    well do whatever u think is right
    i dont want to but there is somthing telling me to. maybe it's my consions. (plus bad spelling and punctuation run in the family)
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    (Original post by dinkymints)
    I am 99% sure that it isn't! Although they are *fairly* close together...
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    well thanks for ur opinions, im off to bed, need sleep, plus gotta get up at 9 sumthing.
    =(polljk)=
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    (Original post by PadFoot90)
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    thanks, so its bloody close then lol.
    well like i said must sleep
    im starting to look like ****
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    (Original post by polljk)
    he has offerd to let me visit him out there out of his pocket, and is qatar not in saudi?
    Qatar is a country between Saudi Arabia and the Persian Gulf. It's capital, Doha, is the command base for U.S. forces in Iraq.

    I would say that you should go and check it out for a week or 2 just because he is your father. Then you can make a decision.
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    I'd say stay as far away from Saudi Arabia as you can - it's dangerous these days with the reprisals against the USA and Britain these days.
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    up to you, ih you know he's going to say sorry to you maybe you should go
 
 
 
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