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    Title says it all really..I just wondered how common it is for guys to want to do this? I mean..he hasn't yet...but it's obvious he wants to. A finger is about as far as it's got, and this was completely inniciated by him.

    I'm not sure whether I'm completely comfortable with the idea really, but he seems really tunred on by it..

    any replies would be appreciated!
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    Moderately common.
    If you don't want to do it then tell him you don't want to.
    However you seem more surprised than repulsed so it might be worth trying - lots of people enjoy it - think about it. Discuss it.
    Did what he did so far feel OK?

    And if you do give it a go make sure you're relaxed and use lots and lots of lube.
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    Ew?
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    I don't think any straight male finds anal exciting.
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    you would be suprised most women won't do it because they think it is dirty, others that do usually enjoy it, when I have givin a women anal sex they usually have orgasmed straight away because it reaches new places and still stimulates the vagina, id say try it you maybe suprised, but be gentle at first since its a lost tighter lol
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    (Original post by mrsmann)
    I don't think any straight male finds anal exciting.
    They do. It's seen as dirty and naughty and we don't get to do it often/havn't done it at all, which makes it a tempting thought...
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    I don't get how anyone finds it an exciting concept to put their pen0r where poo comes out. But then I don't get how it excites people to smear feces on each other, or crush their testicles with stillettos, so I guess it's personal opinion.

    Anal feels quite good though, I hear. So If you're not completely disgusted by the idea, why not go for it? You may learn something about yourself, and satisfy his fetishes at the same time.
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    It might be "dirty and naughty" but it's just disgusting! Yuck. Seriously how can anyone like it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Moderately common.
    If you don't want to do it then tell him you don't want to.
    However you seem more surprised than repulsed so it might be worth trying - lots of people enjoy it - think about it. Discuss it.
    Did what he did so far feel OK?

    And if you do give it a go make sure you're relaxed and use lots and lots of lube.
    Sound practical advice ^ go try it!!
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    I personally don't mind it, it's quite enjoyable tbh. But the rule of thumb (ooh, pun!) with sex is never to do anything you're not comfortable with, so if in doubt, do nowt.
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    So long as he's not into receiving anal, lol lol, amirite?

    In all seriousness though, if you don't feel comfortable about it, tell him so, then perhaps he'll go slower or be more gentle about it. Heck, he may even forget about the idea altogether for your benefit.
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    If your not 110% happy then dont do it.

    You can say no, after all its your backside!!

    Still baffles me why on earth people do that sorta ting!!!! UGH
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    Good grief, no.
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    I blame porn for men's obsession with anal sex. It's full of it. Personally it's something I don't mind watching in porn, but I think in real life the practicalities of it make it not very worthwhile. Maybe I'd try it once, but I don't suppose it really feels better than regular sex.
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    If your going to do anal. Use LUBE!!!
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    The Anthropologist Beat me to my line lol

    Ye most boys want to do this :P
    But if you don't want to then don't get pressured into it and tell him how you feel about it
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    Just to clarify OP, you are female?

    Anyway, as a straight male, i don't see the appeal, in my opinion your ass isn't designed to be poked.

    I tried rimming once. :mb:

    I shall not be trying it again. #nope#
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    ^^ dude that is sick lol
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    (Original post by DiscoPirate)
    I tried rimming once. :mb:

    I shall not be trying it again. #nope#
    This, combined with your username, made me laugh. quite a lot. I'm in an internet cafe, and people are staring.
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    What's up with my username? :confused:
 
 
 
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