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Met a girl who I really like, who lives thousands of miles away.

internet dating superstud

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Reply 1

.Adrian.

internet dating superstud

Sorry for this thread, I guess I just needed to tell someone. All I have to talk to are mexicans, russians and slovakians. None of them speak more than about 50 words of English between them.

ROfl at that man sozz :P

Then just contact her and see how things go...you ot nothing to lose really because from what she was doing, she clearly wanted you, and your brain hated yu having fun so stopped you.

If you do get the bottle just tell her :smile:

Reply 2

73337

You must contact her and arrange something. Do you have her details? (I hope you do).

From your description, it sounds a bit special. Go for it and keep us posted :smile:

Reply 3

internet dating superstud

.Adrian.

ROfl at that man sozz :P

No problem man. The way I see my problems is that if other people are able to laugh at my expense, at least something positive has come out of my situation.

.Adrian.

Then just contact her and see how things go...you ot nothing to lose really because from what she was doing, she clearly wanted you, and your brain hated yu having fun so stopped you.

You think she did want me? I couldn't tell whether she was just being affectionate to a friend or not.

The uncertainty is killing me :mad:

.Adrian.

If you do get the bottle just tell her :smile:

Ohhhh **** I don't think I ever could. I don't know how she'd react, and I'd like to retain some kind of trump cards for emergency situations, I guess.

Thanks for your post mate.

Reply 4

.Adrian.

hmm then keep contact with her definetly then because you wre pretty close.

Thing is with relationship is

1.She knew she was going soon and wanted to end with a high, as you two were getting on very well :smile:

2.She actually did like you a lot and couldn't ever bring it up with you because you unfortunately said you were <b>gay</b> and thought it was a lost cause until that night.
3.Just thought it was good way to say goodbye for now :smile:

There is only one negative but seems very unlikely from your post, so it seems that you both were getting that special bond. And if she wouldn't mind having you to stay, then go over for a hoiday if you can and see how things go, like tell her that your bisexual and stuff.

But hey if all goes well somehow you tell me hehe

Reply 5

internet dating superstud

Avogadro6.022*10^23

You must contact her and arrange something. Do you have her details? (I hope you do).

From your description, it sounds a bit special. Go for it and keep us posted :smile:

Heh. You know what's cool?

At the beginning of the week she was saying how boring the German place was, and how much she wanted it to end. But towards the end of the week when we got closer, she started saying how she didn't want to go back home, and wanted to stay. I never called her on it, and she never said why she changed her mind.

I like to think I had a part in it though :smile:

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I do have her details though. I texted her, but I'm not sure if I got the wrong number, because I didn't get a reply. Although it did take about 6 tries for my new slovakian friend to put my number into his phone correctly witht he correct international code so that it actually worked, so that might just be it.

Maybe I should just send her an email.

Reply 6

Mernard

It sounds as if she was interested to me, despite you saying that you were gay. It seems overly affectionate for a relationship between a gay guy and a girl. Then again, perhaps my female friends just aren't very affectionate? :p:

Reply 7

King Hippo

I know this isn't exactly the main point of the thing, but how can you have a raging semi?

Reply 8

.Adrian.

^^ pmsl

Reply 9

e-lover

OP I feel for you. I really like(d) a girl who lives in London and I live in Dudley :frown:

Reply 10

internet dating superstud

King Hippo

I know this isn't exactly the main point of the thing, but how can you have a raging semi?

It was a joke :tongue:

. Meant nothing more than I happened to have sprouted a chubby.

Reply 11

Cj-Tj

You are more likley to regret things which failed in the attempt than things you never bothered trying.

AND

It is much easier to ask for forgiveness than seek permission.

Are two paraphrased quotes which come to mind. Maybe its just you being nervous, but sometimes its best to go with the flow and sort any mess out later.

Reply 12

BlueRoses

Cj-Tj

You are more likley to regret things which failed in the attempt than things you never bothered trying.

Really don't agree with that but whatever...

Maybe she was just being close to you thinking you were a really nice gay guy? Although I wouldnt be that nice to my gay friends..

Reply 13

Cj-Tj

clairette

Really don't agree with that but whatever...

Sorry love, but maybe we have different oppinions? :wink:

Aint that what helps to make the world go round...

Reply 14

Font

if you really like her...go live with her or ask her to come to you if you are serious about it, or else just cut off all ties...thats what i did when i couldn't get the girl i liked :frown:

-its surprisingly effective.

edit: should have read the original post!:P

Reply 15

Cj-Tj

^^ have you read any of it?! Jeeze.... I know its a Sunday but even still a small ammount of effort wouldnt go a miss.

Reply 16

instigator

I met the girl of my dreams a couple of weeks ago, one of the best looking girls I've ever seen and clever too, we also had the most romantic meeting ever.... She lives 8000 miles away and I know she likes me too :frown:

I say that to tell you I feel your pain. I think she likes you but you've learnt the hard way why you should never pretend to be gay as it creates these problems! Myself I would have just gone for the kiss as you didnt really have a lot to lose... However if you had hit it off completely you would probably be in even more pain right now as you would KNOW she liked you back....

Just contact her and see what happens, go and visit if you have to!