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went out for a meal with this guy i met and now he's ignoring me :(

kitty_koo

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Reply 1

internet dating superstud

It might be because I'm in a pessimistic mood, but it sounds like he's a lost cause. Of course this assumes that he keeps it up for a while. He may just be going through some kind of personal problems, although I doubt it.

Reply 2

I_am_the_mob

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Just ask him, if it's nothing then hopefully all will be well again and if it's not at least you know to move on. Good luck

Reply 3

kitty_koo

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wouldnt it be a bit soon to ask him? he might think im too clingy or something :redface:

why do guys have to be so hard to understand?!! :s-smilie:

Reply 4

I_am_the_mob

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wouldnt it be a bit soon to ask him? he might think im too clingy or something
why do guys have to be so hard to understand?!!

Because other wise life would be easy and somebody doesn't want it to be *sighs*
Perhaps it would seem clingy. When did you go out with him?

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kitty_koo

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I_am_the_mob

Perhaps it would seem clingy. When did you go out with him?

yesterday

we went to the Mailbox in Birmingham

Reply 6

I_am_the_mob

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yesterday we went to the Mailbox in Birmingham

I love that place!
Wait, back to topic. Oh yesterday is too soon to ask him but it's probably also too soon to worry aboot it. He may be trying to play cool or just be busy, if his behaviour continues for a few more days then ask him but I would hope he would be fine soon

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kitty_koo

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I_am_the_mob

I love that place!
Wait, back to topic. Oh yesterday is too soon to ask him but it's probably also too soon to worry aboot it. He may be trying to play cool or just be busy, if his behaviour continues for a few more days then ask him but I would hope he would be fine soon

i love the Mailbox too although id never been before yesterday :redface:

we went to Cafe Rouge and Red Peppers :p:

i think i'll probably leave it a couple of days and if he hasnt gone back to normal txting and msn wise, i'll email him

Reply 8

I_am_the_mob

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i love the Mailbox too although id never been before yesterday we went to Cafe Rouge and Red Peppers

i think i'll probably leave it a couple of days and if he hasnt gone back to normal txting and msn wise, i'll email him

Good idea. Those are nice places, good luck :smile:

Reply 9

kitty_koo

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I_am_the_mob

Good idea. Those are nice places, good luck :smile:

thanks

Reply 10

I_am_the_mob

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No problemo :hugs:

Reply 11

kitty_koo

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although i may need some help in deciding what to put in an email if he's still ignoring me :p:

lol but hopefully it wont come to that

Reply 12

cutandpasteandtwisty

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I don't mean to sound harsh, but maybe you weren't what he was looking for. :redface:

Reply 13

I_am_the_mob

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although i may need some help in deciding what to put in an email if he's still ignoring me lol but hopefully it wont come to that

If it does just pm me

Reply 14

ISH

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Yep, yesterday is too soon to start worrying :smile:

Reply 15

PhilMc

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Guys not simple?!

HA!

If ANYTHING it is totally the other way around. Girls are the worst for it. If a guy ignores you he will because he doesn't like you/ doesn't want anything to happen. There are mixed signals with most - if not all - guys.

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Did he offer to pay for your meal? Surely thats a sign of romantic interest?

Reply 17

kitty_koo

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ISH

Yep, yesterday is too soon to start worrying :smile:

when should i start worrying then? :redface:

anon: he did pay for the meal, he even waited with my at the bus stop :p:

(he got the train)

Reply 18

*Katie*

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How many times could you have spoken on MSN since yesterday :confused:

Definitely give it a few days. Maybe he wasn't attracted to you, because presumably he didn't know what you looked like, and he didn't want to give you the wrong idea? Someone had to say it.

Reply 19

I_am_the_mob

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when should i start worrying then?

In a few days, maybe a week

Did he offer to pay for your meal? Surely thats a sign of romantic interest?

That's very true. Why are you anon? :s-smilie:

went out for a meal with this guy i met and now he's ignoring me :(

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