How to have a relationship ?

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    Well I used to talk to this girl, not so much now but it made me realise, basically she is part time at my work place as has uni. But I was thinking if we were to hit it off, how would we spend time, since ive finished uni.

    I understand we would meet up for a meal or ice cream, but when would we actually talk like have a nice chat, like when you have the chemistry with each other.

    I mean meeting up once or twice and week and phone calls and text messages is not a proper relationship is it ? You would want to be with each other and watch a movie at home or cuddle up on the sofa, but you wont be able to do that since you dont have your own place.

    At uni it was different you would be with each other often and would know each other very quickly and there was plent of opportunities. But when your working its difficult maintaining a relationship.

    I understand if you both want to be with each other you can make it work, but you need to be dedicated. But when your in a full time job its hard.

    What do you think ?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    meeting up once or twice and week and phone calls and text messages is not a proper relationship is it?
    Indeed not

    You would want to be with each other and watch a movie at home or cuddle up on the sofa, but you wont be able to do that since you dont have your own place
    One doesn't typically need your own place to do such things

    you need to be dedicated. But when your in a full time job its hard
    Can require some dedication, aye, but where there's a will, there's a way
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    One doesn't typically need your own place to do such things
    Where tho what if you cant have a friends place ?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Where tho what if you cant have a friends place ?
    Your home, hers, or a random snuggle location
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Your home, hers, or a random snuggle location
    Thats the thing in my case, we are both living with our parents. In college or uni its different as you spend the day together. But at work its sort of like the only time you can hang out. Thats if your both on the same shift.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    we are both living with our parents
    Are your parents very difficult or something? Not usually a major problem :dontknow:
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