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dilemmas dilemmas dilemmas!!!

oh my goodness i'm in a BIG dilemma!!!! lol
I've been with my boyf for about 9 months now but I feel as though we are drifting apart. He hardly texts, we live quite far apart & we haven't seen eachother that much over the summer holidays. We were going to see eachother next week but he's making excuses up like he might not be able to make it because his dad said he has to go and visit a family member (???) and it may be too expensive (haven't seen him for about 5 weeks by the way) and he hasn't been in touch at all today depspite the fact he's just come back from his hols.
ANYWAY, I've started to like someone else. He's a lot better looking and he's from near me. Except i've only ever really spoken to him once at uni, then i saw him around a few times but i was always with my boyf so couldn't talk to him properly. He's on my facebook though & I'm seriously thinking about messaging him. but what should i do about my boyf???? i really just don't know what to do anymore and i'm confused about how i feel. I think it's because he's just not making as much effort as i would like.

Reply 1

If you like someone else and feel like your current relationship isn't working then I'd say get out of it and move on.

Reply 2

Well you have said in your past threads how unhappy you are, so why don't you do your boyfriend a favour and leave him, because you've said for ages how unhappy you are.