The Student Room Group

breaking up and clubbing...

I posted this already but can't find it anywhere!

basically I broke up with my gf for 15 months a few weeks back and was devestated, but am now starting to get over her and realise no ones worth me feeling how I was originally (it was really unhealthy) and am starting to think that I'm better off without her etc, missing her less and less and all that, and can finally bring myself to be more outgoing etc than I was at the begining..

Am now starting to get over the whole thing, but the annoying thing is, most of my friends, especially girls, have taken a bit of a back seat since the relationship started, and I have v few girls I talk to regularly talk to, and friends arent as willing to go out without notice like they used to!

Long story short, I want to go out but no one will come. I've decided I just want to get on with life but hate staying at home in this room because of it, and because everything reminds me of her, but no one wants to come out! Can't stand just sitting in here. I've just been going on random drives but it wears thin!

Was supposed to be out, but everyones cancelled last minute! Is going out to a club just to chill and relax on your own really pathetic, or does anyone else do it? Tempted as I could really do with being out, feels like sitting around gets boring after 5 mins since it happened!

How did everyone else deal with a serious relationship breaking up?

Reply 1

Yes its pathetic and a little creepy. Surely you can badger one mate into going out with you?

Reply 2

I'm curious... are you clubbing girls because of misogynistic revenge or is it more of a hobby?

Going to a pub or a student union on your own is perfectly acceptable, but unless you're a forty-something who's failed at life, I suggest you venture to clubs with company in tow.

Reply 3

Nix!
I'm curious... are you clubbing girls because of misogynistic revenge or is it more of a hobby?

Going to a pub or a student union on your own is perfectly acceptable, but unless you're a forty-something who's failed at life, I suggest you venture to clubs with company in tow.

lol see thats my point, exactly my thoughts, but on the other hand I dont really have a union to go to as i work (stu union must be closed now too? study part time, never rly been to mine ) and the bars around here dont play the music I like which would be the only reason i'd be going out!

Reply 4

jaw
lol see thats my point, exactly my thoughts, but on the other hand I dont really have a union to go to as i work (stu union must be closed now too? study part time, never rly been to mine ) and the bars around here dont play the music I like which would be the only reason i'd be going out!


Not a lot I can suggest then. You'll just have to bide your time until people are available again.