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    Its not fair, my friends have been able to since they were 14, im 18 and still cant. I have wet dreams though so surely there is no blockage or anything.

    I have looked at a variety of things on the internet with no success, and porn doesnt appeal to me but I have tried and it doesnt really arouse me. Infact most categories disgust me, Lesbian category is the most appealing but boring. (Im a straight male)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Its not fair, my friends have been able to since they were 14, im 18 and still cant. I have wet dreams though so surely there is no blockage or anything.

    I have looked at a variety of things on the internet with no success, and porn doesnt appeal to me but I have tried and it doesnt really arouse me. Infact most categories disgust me, Lesbian category is the most appealing but boring. (Im a straight male)
    You mean you can't 'finish' when you masturbate, or you can't get an erection? Don't put too much pressure on yourself. The more you fret about it, the less likely it will be to happen. Have you tried not using porn at all, and just using your imagination? If you're worried, see your GP. They'll be able to investigate whether there's something going on physically, psychologically, or if there's nothing wrong at all
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    Having wet dreams says that your body can ejaculate and, yes, the vast majority of porn is boring.

    What happens when you try to masturbate? The first few times I orgasmed, as I was getting close the sensation was just like that of wanting to pee - I wasn't used to the sensations of approaching ejaculation and that's how my brain interpreted them, because I've known those signs since being a toddler
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    Having wet dreams says that your body can ejaculate and, yes, the vast majority of porn is boring.

    What happens when you try to masturbate? The first few times I orgasmed, as I was getting close the sensation was just like that of wanting to pee - I wasn't used to the sensations of approaching ejaculation and that's how my brain interpreted them, because I've known those signs since being a toddler
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    You mean you can't 'finish' when you masturbate, or you can't get an erection? Don't put too much pressure on yourself. The more you fret about it, the less likely it will be to happen. Have you tried not using porn at all, and just using your imagination? If you're worried, see your GP. They'll be able to investigate whether there's something going on physically, psychologically, or if there's nothing wrong at all
    I can get erect but I cant masturabate.

    And imagination sometimes I enjoy it but I can only do it while laying down on my bed on my back cant sitting down, and my imagination isnt good I have gotten bored of the good things i have imagined. Havent tried to do it to imagination because it still wont work
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    Tried using lube? Something like olive oil would do if you don't want to spend money on a commercial 'personal lubricant'
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    I MASTURBATE DAILY BUT SINCE ONE MONTH I don't get any erection WHY?!!!!
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    I'm female so not too clued up about this subject when it comes to men, but would a vibrating cock ring help?
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    (Original post by JALAL KHAN)
    I MASTURBATE DAILY BUT SINCE ONE MONTH I don't get any erection WHY?!!!!
    What's changed in your life?
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    I think you might be wanting a real person 😁
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    If it helps think of a girl you have a crush on or even a close friend
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    What and who do you imagine when you doing it?
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    put a finger up your bottom
 
 
 
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