One of my friends invited me to a party yesterday. She's in a new city and in a new uni. When I arrived, there were 2 other friends we have in common. About 1 hour later 2 girls from her class came. I had never seen them in my life. Later on, I started to talk to one of them and then things got crazy. I'm not gonna go into details because nobody cares but I was a bit shocked of what we did, especially in front of all our friends. Anyway, they all eventually left. I spent the night at my friend's (the one who invited me) house because I live far away.
We went to bed and she talked to me about what happened. She said I should definitely try to talk to her again as she thinks that the girl likes me. Honestly I don't know, it wasn't nothing but she could just be a tease (wouldn't be the first one) or maybe it was the alcohol.
But it's worth trying... I have nothing to lose! I'm rather terrible with girls though, especially when it comes to having a conversation with a girl. I added her on FB earlier, she accepted me. I have no idea what to say now. I can't even ask her to go out for a drink since she currently lives far away...
Met a girl yesterday, not sure what to do next Watch
- 09-10-2016 17:33
- 09-10-2016 18:18
can't even ask her to go out for a drink since she currently lives far away...Help please
(Original post by Foo.mp3)
- 09-10-2016 20:37
It would be helpful, if you want relatively incisive advice
Do you really need/want our input, is it ever likely to go anywhere?
Basically we were talking about bras (can't remember why) and next minute she almost completely took off her shirt and I was actually taking off her bra... Then she kept touching me. And finally she laid her head on my chest. It lasted a bit, she got up and did it again. I was very uncomfortable with the other friends around us. My arm was bothering her so she asked if I could put it somewhere else, I said sure but to be honest there weren't many possibilities... She told me to put it anywhere, I said anywhere really she said 'sure, I'm laying on you I won't blame you if you touch me'.
I would have to drive 1:30 hours to see her so it's not that bad. And she only studies there, where she's from, it's not far at all. But unfortunately she doesn't often go back there...
- 09-10-2016 22:12
I would have to drive 1:30 hours to see her so it's not that bad. And she only studies there, where she's from, it's not far at all
- 09-10-2016 22:30
Did it... we talked for about 30min, I don't have much hope anymore though... Only got her phone number and a "if you come see [name of our mutual friend] again, then we will probably see each other again"