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Percy here,
i need some advice on what to say to this girl.
i have fancied her for ages and i think she knows, but i dont if she feels the same way.
I want to tell her but i dont know how to, i dont want to sound desperate or wierd and freak her out. what can i say?
i feel really stupid posting me problem up on here, but i need some advice...
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why dont you just ask her? Its not the end of the world. Acting all shy gets nobody anywhere
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As someone on here's signature says

"He who asks is a fool for 15 seconds, he who doesnt ask remains a fool forever"

or something like that. An old Chinese proverb.
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just found out she's with someone!
thats made it harder now/ :eek:
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just found out she's with someone!
thats made it harder now/ :eek:
Ok, this changes things. Now your first problem is where to hide this new guy's body.
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Ok, this changes things. Now your first problem is where to hide this new guy's body.
lol.
my life is ruined
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(Original post by PercyWerthers)

just found out she's with someone!
thats made it harder now/ :eek:
Well thats it then . Sorry mate.
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lol.
my life is ruined
Don't say that! I have exactly the same problem. I tell you what, you do it with a wrench and I'll use a knife.

We can meet up on UKL and compare notes, and stuff.
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(Original post by goldenbarnes)
As someone on here's signature says

"He who asks is a fool for 15 seconds, he who doesnt ask remains a fool forever"

or something like that. An old Chinese proverb.
That proverb isn't about asking someone out - it's about knowledge and the value of it. It's saying if you don't know something and asking it may make you look a fool (for not knowing), it may be better to ask and suffer that fate than that of a lifetime of ignorance.

As relevant as that is, it misses the point as to why he hasn't asked the girl already. I don't think it's because he's afraid of being a fool, but of being rejected.

As the other person said, just ask - what's the worst that could happen? What is it you're holding on to that you think you will lose? Your friendship? Your image? Your dreams?

As for not knowing if she likes you or not - unless you ask her, you'll know nothing. Unfortunately for you, (most) girls, as a result of their insecurities, aren't going to make any moves unless they're entirely sure you like them and they have strong feelings for you. So if you do nothing, nothing will happen - simple as that.
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lol.
my life is ruined
lol
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tell her you like girls who are tighter than a man's anus
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tell her you like girls who are tighter than a man's anus
Not in your case...
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so getting rejected = no girl
and not saying anything = no girl

I would rather be rejected and know where I stand to be honest. There is always the chance of recriprocal feelings
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thanks
i know waht to do now.
just wording it right.
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(Original post by goldenbarnes)
As someone on here's signature says

"He who asks is a fool for 15 seconds, he who doesnt ask remains a fool forever"

or something like that. An old Chinese proverb.
The wisdom of the ancient Chinese.

Confucius, he say: "Never eat soup outside during rainstorm - you never finish."
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why dont you just ask her? Its not the end of the world. Acting all shy gets nobody anywhere
agreed - girls like self confidence
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Percy here,
i need some advice on what to say to this girl.
i have fancied her for ages and i think she knows, but i dont if she feels the same way.
I want to tell her but i dont know how to, i dont want to sound desperate or wierd and freak her out. what can i say?
i feel really stupid posting me problem up on here, but i need some advice...

just asl her out, ur gonna have to do that sonner or later, and well, in the worst case, might as well end the pain :rolleyes:
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The wisdom of the ancient Chinese.

Confucius, he say: "Never eat soup outside during rainstorm - you never finish."
Best proverb ever.
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(Original post by Leekey)
Best proverb ever.
And applicable to most aspects of life.
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just asl her out, ur gonna have to do that sonner or later, and well, in the worst case, might as well end the pain :rolleyes:
she is with someone though
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