So one of my friends is at uni, I have known him for 5 years now and we always hang out in our friendship group. Whenever he is back from uni we always all meet up.*
I am not at uni because I work full time but I am going out in about a months time in London (local to me and his hometown) to this bar where they will be playing live music. It's a band I know he really really likes so I have sent a message asking if he wants to come with me and a group of others. He hasn't met them before but that won't be an issue. It's a Friday so I thought he could come down from uni for that weekend. His uni is about 2 hours train from London.
I sent this a few weeks ago and he didn't reply. I find it quite rude because surely he would know if he can come or not? Do you think I am asking too much? I do know lots of people who come home practically every weekend however he literally never comes home. I just thought he might like a change of scenery.*
Should I still go?