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    I am currently in a four year relationship with a man i am so in love with. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I honestly couldnt ask for a better half!
    I got really drunk at a party, and tried to kiss my ex.
    I can barely even remember this. I feel so disgusted. Nothing actually happened but i still tried! My ex told me i have nothing to worry about it was a solly mistake and i was just drunk.
    I have absolutely no feelins for my ex and dont know where this came from.
    He doesnt compare to my boyfriend at all! I really hate myself for what i tried to do, and mainly because i cant even begin to imagine why i tried to!!
    I guess what im trying to ask is- should i tell my boyfriend??? I am so scared to loose him over some silly drunken mistake!
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    Big deal. Got drunk. Anything can happen. It didn't. No harm, no foul.



    **EDIT** Oh no, wait. Because TSR - um.....you don't deserve him, he deserves someone much better than you etc etc etc
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    It was a mistake and you are sorry about it and thankfully nothing happened. But you should still tell him.
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    (Original post by Trinculo)
    Big deal. Got drunk. Anything can happen. It didn't. No harm, no foul.



    **EDIT** Oh no, wait. Because TSR - um.....you don't deserve him, he deserves someone much better than you etc etc etc
    That's only for guys who cheat.
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    (Original post by donutellme)
    It was a mistake and you are sorry about it and thankfully nothing happened. But you should still tell him.
    Yeah. Great advice. Wreck someone else's relationship because of your insane moralising.
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    Wow can't trust anyone these days, 4 years and you do him like that? Honestly I would just tell him what you did and then let him decide if he wants to continue or end.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am currently in a four year relationship with a man i am so in love with. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I honestly couldnt ask for a better half!
    I got really drunk at a party, and tried to kiss my ex.
    I can barely even remember this. I feel so disgusted. Nothing actually happened but i still tried! My ex told me i have nothing to worry about it was a solly mistake and i was just drunk.
    I have absolutely no feelins for my ex and dont know where this came from.
    He doesnt compare to my boyfriend at all! I really hate myself for what i tried to do, and mainly because i cant even begin to imagine why i tried to!!
    I guess what im trying to ask is- should i tell my boyfriend??? I am so scared to loose him over some silly drunken mistake!
    If you are that close, then tell him. Pick your moment though. Sooner is better.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am currently in a four year relationship with a man i am so in love with. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I honestly couldnt ask for a better half!
    I got really drunk at a party, and tried to kiss my ex.
    I can barely even remember this. I feel so disgusted. Nothing actually happened but i still tried! My ex told me i have nothing to worry about it was a solly mistake and i was just drunk.
    I have absolutely no feelins for my ex and dont know where this came from.
    He doesnt compare to my boyfriend at all! I really hate myself for what i tried to do, and mainly because i cant even begin to imagine why i tried to!!
    I guess what im trying to ask is- should i tell my boyfriend??? I am so scared to loose him over some silly drunken mistake!
    Not sure whether you should tell him the fact you only tried to and not suceeded. Still it is a silly mistake to make, maybe in future watch how much you drink.
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    If you are that close, then tell him. Pick your moment though. Sooner is better.
    You, bud, are a philosopher.
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    Being drunk is no excuse whatsoever for being an unreliable, useless *****.

    Being drunk is not an excuse for any immoral behaviour - you allowed yourself to get drunk. That shows a serious lack of self control.
 
 
 
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