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Need advice about second-time sex

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    So, I slept with this guy for the first time a few days ago, and really found it quite uncomfortable. He's quite big (I think, it was my first time so I don't have much of a reference for this), which was definitely a factor. Anyway, I want to keep seeing him but am concerned about how uncomfortable penetration is. How do I make it more pleasant for me, while still making sure he enjoys it? Would a change in position help at all?

    More foreplay from him could ease it in, as could lube.

    Buuuut... If it was your first time, don't be surprised if he seemed big.

    It's probably going to be uncomfortable for a little while, it's perfectly normal

    Use lube, and lots of it
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