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Right well basically I had a very nice day today ^^
I met up with a friend, was really nice. We came back to mine because I said I would cook, we ate played some wii, watched some tv. Went to ma room and lied doon on me sofa and from about I dunno 3-5 we just lay together. I brought a duvet over and we just kinda snuggled I guess you could say. She rested her head on my chest put her left arm around me, I put my left arm behind her head around her and my right arm across her body if ya get me. We just lay like this for about two hours, everynow and again comenting on the telly or adjusting position slightly.
Now I personally think something was going on there, but I just wondered what other people think. Am I over reading this?
Also she has a boyfriend -_-

Reply 1

nanananabatman

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Maybe she thinks of you as a brother.

Reply 2

PatchTheCatch

OP

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nanananabatman

Maybe she thinks of you as a brother.

Doubt it seeing as I've only met her in person once before and that was about 6 months ago at least.
Just been friends really

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Either she fancies you, or she's curious about you, or she misses her boyfriend and misses the male attention she usually gets from her boyfriend, and thus she has turned to you for that attention for the time being.

I basically did what you did just the other day and I have a boyfriend and I know for a fact that I don't fancy the guy. But since my boyfriend's abroad, I really miss having a guy cuddle me. It shouldn't be encouraged really - maybe you should talk to her and get things clarified.

xx

Reply 4

big?mark

Well its abit strange.
Im a girl, i have a boyfriend, i would never lie with another boy under a blanket and cuddle for hours. Even if i really liked the other boy.
So yeah, she probably likes you, but if she's the type of girl who gets up to stuff behind her bf back, would you really want to be with her?

Reply 5

PatchTheCatch

OP

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Well her boyfriend's just a call and bus ride away so I doubt it would be missing him, I dunno maybe I'm hoping it's something so am oblivious to any other options and whatnot

Reply 6

nmt_oli

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Some people are naturally more "touchy feely" than others. It really is down to the individual. I have female freinds who would only do that to people they were serisouly interested in, and some who did it with me the first time i met them.

I would say you could be reading into it to much.

Reply 7

I_am_the_mob

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I wouldn't do that with a guy unless I liked him but the bf is a problem (obviously) I agree with big?mark, she might be trouble if she hits on a guy while she has a bf

Reply 8

PatchTheCatch

OP

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big?mark

Well its abit strange.
Im a girl, i have a boyfriend, i would never lie with another boy under a blanket and cuddle for hours. Even if i really liked the other boy.
So yeah, she probably likes you, but if she's the type of girl who gets up to stuff behind her bf back, would you really want to be with her?

Well their relationship is rocky or so I've heard. They've been together a month and argue a lot and generally when they meet up one of them ends up storming off.

Reply 9

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teenageclay

Well their relationship is rocky or so I've heard. They've been together a month and argue a lot and generally when they meet up one of them ends up storming off.

Sounds messy, i'd advise staying well clear.

Reply 10

I_am_the_mob

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Well their relationship is rocky or so I've heard. They've been together a month and argue a lot and generally when they meet up one of them ends up storming off

That's good for you but be that as it may he is still a bf. Just enjoy her company, it obviously makes you happy, and see what happens

Reply 11

Zoecb

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Sounds flirty to me.

Might not me, but I'm just saying, I wouldn't drape myself over a guy unless I wanted something from him. Is everything OK between her and her bf?

Reply 12

big?mark

Then i'd forget about her as gf material right now. She needs to sort her own relationship out and if you get involved things will just get twice as messy.

You havent actually said if you like her???

Reply 13

PatchTheCatch

OP

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I dunno ^^ je suis a complex thing, people don't understand me and I barely even understand myself. I mean bored of being single so I just picture how not being single would be and it was just one of those situations that I had in mind of what it will be like with my new girlfriend amongst others it ranked highly in my fantasies I guess you could call it.

Reply 14

JacquesNoir

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You missed the opportunity to plough the poon! :biggrin:

Reply 15

big?mark

Well if you're bored of being single and you are looking to get a gf, id say you are wasting your time with that girl because shes already got a bf, therefore she cant be your gf.

I think you should just wait and see what happens. She might actually like you. Then again if her relationship is rocky she might have just wanted to be comforted. Like somebody else mentioned she might just be a touchy feely person. She might see you like a brother. Wait and see if anything like this happens again before you start analysing it.

Reply 16

PatchTheCatch

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I wasn't particularly saying I'm looking at her as a girlfriend candidate, it just kinda has taken me aback seeing as none of my friends have ever been like that and blegh I dunno, it's hard to explain.

Reply 17

person 34

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Anonymous

Either she fancies you, or she's curious about you, or she misses her boyfriend and misses the male attention she usually gets from her boyfriend, and thus she has turned to you for that attention for the time being.
I basically did what you did just the other day and I have a boyfriend and I know for a fact that I don't fancy the guy. But since my boyfriend's abroad, I really miss having a guy cuddle me. It shouldn't be encouraged really - maybe you should talk to her and get things clarified.

xx

To random person: Hi, can I just **** you right now, cos I'm missing the male attention I usually get. Thanks!

I don't think so.

Reply 18

][ceman

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You were basically her comfort blanket.

This was her though process:

"Oh no, problems with boyfriend, feeling low and insecure. Must find non-threatening boy to cuddle with and make myself feel safe."

Sorry dude. These girls are harsh things, she would no doubt not have given a second though to how it may have confused you.

Reply 19

I_am_the_mob

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You were basically her comfort blanket.

This was her though process:

"Oh no, problems with boyfriend, feeling low and insecure. Must find non-threatening boy to cuddle with and make myself feel safe."

Sorry dude. These girls are harsh things, she would no doubt not have given a second though to how it may have confused you.

I don't think that's fair! If I'm going to use a guy for comfort I tell him first lol. I wouldn't do that to someone and I'm sure many other girls are the same. That generalisation of girls is rather mean and for me at least untrue

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