So my ex rather brutally dumped me about 4 months ago. For a while I clung on to the hope that he would call me, tell me he still loved me etc. but it has now come apparent that he has moved on. And I need to move on as well
So I have just started seeing this guy. He is ok. Like on paper he would be a pretty good match for me, but I don't fancy him much and I'm still thinking about my ex a lot, and always comparing him to my ex, to whom he doesn't even come close.
Now my dilemma is this; should I continue seeing this guy, because then at least I'm somewhat moving on and it's a distraction ?
Or should I cut things off? And spend more time wallowing over my ex who doesn't want me?
Me and the new guy haven't slept together yet although I reckon that's on the cards for the next time we see each other. I haven't had sex since my ex and I worry I'll get upset and wish it was him. :s
What should I do?