Feeling isolated after graduating uni

    • Thread Starter

    I graduated this summer from my 3 year undergrad. I had a really, really close set of friends there who I spent basically all my time with. I've now started a master's, but am living back at home.

    I've only known everyone for a couple of weeks, so I'm not really that close or comfortable with anyone. I feel like it takes so long for me to get properly close with people. It feels much more like I'm back at school - I go into uni and see peers a couple of days a week and spend most of the rest of my time at home. It's just such a different experience to living away during my undergrad.

    All of my uni friends are off doing different things - different master's, travelling, or doing internships etc. away from me. Already we're starting to message less and less, and everyone is just so busy with their own things now and making new friends. Most of my pre-uni home friends are still at uni or doing grad schemes away from home.

    I usually only spend about 5 minutes a day with my family, which is just such a huge contrast to living with friends at uni. I just feel really isolated and lonely. It's hard not to feel low.

    I guess I'm just wondering whether anyone had any advice, or experienced these post-graduation blues themselves?

    Are there any post grad societies you can join?

    Yes, and it will get worse as you get older. Welcome to real life.

    Going through this, haven't seen most of them for years, and anyone from months.
    A actually barely have an occasion to talk to anybody.
Write a reply… Reply
Submit reply


Thanks for posting! You just need to create an account in order to submit the post
  1. this can't be left blank
    that username has been taken, please choose another Forgotten your password?
  2. this can't be left blank
    this email is already registered. Forgotten your password?
  3. this can't be left blank

    6 characters or longer with both numbers and letters is safer

  4. this can't be left empty
    your full birthday is required
  1. Oops, you need to agree to our Ts&Cs to register
  2. Slide to join now Processing…

Updated: October 13, 2016
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Which party will you be voting for in the General Election 2017?
Useful resources
Bizarre things students have spent their loans onThings you should budget for at uni

Sponsored features:

Making money from your own website

Need some cash?

How to make money running your own website.

Bianca Miller, runner-up on The Apprentice

Handle your digital footprint

What would an employer find out about you on Google? Find out how to take control.

Groups associated with this forum:

View associated groups

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Quick reply
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.