The Student Room Group

People say Ive no go in me

Ive noticed that people think im slow as at football training they have said there is no spark and I look lathargic even when im not playing, even though I don't feel it, I mean but what do they want me to do start a dance? My parents say the same thing when im at home they say Im slow. I think its cause im really shy and don't talk much but what can I do to look energetic? Without looking stupid?
It just means you're crap at football :wink:.

I think most of it's in the eyes (lethargy, not football talent), do you avoid looking at people when you talk to them?
Reply 2
Its everywhere I go not just football, why does it mean im crap? (but I am I admit) I sort of glance at people when im talking to them, look away then glance again lol
Reply 3
Maybe it is your confidence and self esteem issues that make you seem slow?

No offence intended.
jump up and down
Reply 5
Actualy the most confident people move the slowest...(imagine the 'geek' with quick movements and no eye contact). Im similar to you, I move and react slowly with people at work and they think I'm dopey as **** half the time lol but I'm not! (Not as dopey as them neway).
Reply 6
dont worry, slow and steady win the race.