people seem shocked im a virgin

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    so when people ask me ive had sex before, mostly guys their responses are 'tell the truth' 'really?' 'so youve never slept with a guy before?' 'are you sure' 'why not?

    why?
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    Because you don't seem 'innocent'? It could be to do with age too, ie if you're mid twenties it's probably less usual to be a virgin.
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    (Original post by Precious Illusions)
    Because you don't seem 'innocent'? It could be to do with age too, ie if you're mid twenties it's probably less usual to be a virgin.
    im 19
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    Is that really a problem though? I mean, are you happy being a virgin? You don't need to worry if people are judging you for being a virgin. I'd just brush it off, it's not something to be concerned with imo.
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    -They thought you were just the type of outgoing personality that was able to get a lot of shreksual action, and thus assumed that you would've acted on that power
    -They thought you were hella pretty/fit/positive-adjective-of-choice
    -They were under the assumption that the vast majority of people your age are none-virgins and so assumed that its the norm to have done the act once or twice.

    Not sure why it's a sort of big deal you need to make threads on the internet about tho...
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Is that really a problem though? I mean, are you happy being a virgin? You don't need to worry if people are judging you for being a virgin. I'd just brush it off, it's not something to be concerned with imo.
    its not that people judge me, i like being a virgin it doesnt bother me. just curious

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    -They thought you were just the type of outgoing personality that was able to get a let of shreksual action, and thus assumed that you would've acted on that power
    -They thought you were hella pretty/fit/positive-adjective-of-choice
    -They were under the assumption that the vast majority of people your age are none-virgins and so assumed that its the norm to have done the act once or twice.

    Not sure why it's a sort of big deal you need to make threads on the internet about tho...
    im a person who overthinks everything lol
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    Well I am one too and I intend to remain so ~
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    Honestly theres nothing wrong with you being a virgin. If anything it shows you're not like the others and don't sleep with random people and have random ONS. Ignore them.
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    I don't even know why they're asking you. It doesn't make a difference whether you are a virgin or not.

    I actually lost my virginity on a one night stand. It wasn't the status change that bothered me, but the fact that I would have much preferred to wait for someone who I feel a deep connection with as it was a very void experience.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    im 19
    This right here answers your question...

    Next!
 
 
 
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