Lied about not being a virgin

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    So basically we were playing drinking games and told everyone that I wasn't a virgin and what not and I feel like the lie has gone too far and I can't keep it up but I feel like I can't now say 'oh i lied' coz people will think that I'm such a *****.

    I thought it was a good idea at the time coz I was a bit drunk but now I'm seriously regretting it and my friends from home want to come and visit but if we all play together, they'll obviously find out that I lied :/

    I dunno what to do, I feel like such an idiot... its not even that big of a deal that I haven't lost it yet but now I have made it into a big deal.

    HALP PLZ

    Thanks!
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    It's your life, why should something such as that be of anybody else concern?
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    In what way has it gone too far? Did you claim to be into something super kinky and now others want to try it with you?

    If literally all you've said is that you're not a virgin then I doubt anyone is even really thinking about it. It's not a big deal whether you are or aren't. No one's going to dwell on that fact!
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    I've never seen anyone who wasn't a virgin care about who was a virgin. If anything people's responses are likely to be 'good on you for waiting for a good experience, I wish I had'. It's not great to lie but tbh you can either be like 'oh did I say that? must have been really drunk' (if you just drank, if you came up with a whole story then maybe don't try it) or just be like 'yeah I was a bit embarassed but oh well I'm a virgin'. I doubt anyone will care.
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    (Original post by sinfonietta)
    In what way has it gone too far? Did you claim to be into something super kinky and now others want to try it with you?

    If literally all you've said is that you're not a virgin then I doubt anyone is even really thinking about it. It's not a big deal whether you are or aren't. No one's going to dwell on that fact!
    I think it just has gone on too long like I'm seriously regretting it and its eating away at me, I'm just the type of person to worry about what people think of me which is probably why I lied in the first place but I just don't know how to come clean... because I would like to and just start fresh...

    I was just planning to get incredibly drunk on night and blurt it out...

    FML
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    What do you mean the lie has gone too far? Unless you maintained the story that you banged Kate Upton or something along those lines, then I don't see a problem.
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    You need to chill out, it seriously doesn't matter that you've done this. If the truth comes out, people will be like "oh okay, cool". If not, it doesn't matter. CHILL OUT.
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    (Original post by doodle_333)
    I've never seen anyone who wasn't a virgin care about who was a virgin. If anything people's responses are likely to be 'good on you for waiting for a good experience, I wish I had'. It's not great to lie but tbh you can either be like 'oh did I say that? must have been really drunk' (if you just drank, if you came up with a whole story then maybe don't try it) or just be like 'yeah I was a bit embarassed but oh well I'm a virgin'. I doubt anyone will care.
    thanks for the reply! I might just get drunk again and come clean with the phrases youve suggested... I feel like its been eating away at me for a bit now
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    (Original post by UWS)
    What do you mean the lie has gone too far? Unless you maintained the story that you banged Kate Upton or something along those lines, then I don't see a problem.
    To be honest, I wouldn't see the problem if they /did/ bang Kate Upton.
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    I knew somebody who did this and lost it not long after. I don't think anybody is still aware, including the person who took it, that he still had it.
 
 
 
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