When to tell someone about cheating?

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    So my ex told me he wanted to be with me and work things out after an argument, but I've found he's been sexting a girl. I found the number, and I've found she's actually married.

    I know it sounds like point scoring, but should I message the husband anonymously? I have the screenshots to prove it.

    When is it right to let someone else know of deceit?
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    He (the ex) may argue that you're just **** stirring and so will she.

    Just move on and stay out of it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So my ex told me he wanted to be with me and work things out after an argument, but I've found he's been sexting a girl. I found the number, and I've found she's actually married.

    I know it sounds like point scoring, but should I message the husband anonymously? I have the screenshots to prove it.

    When is it right to let someone else know of deceit?
    Important thing to notice - its none of your business. He's your ex, he has no involvement in your life and you shouldn't try to stir things either.

    Leave it out and move on, it'll be a classless move on both parts.
 
 
 
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