Are white men the most desirable men for ethnic women?

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    (Original post by dropoutbear)
    "Once you go black you never go back"...
    The term actually is "Once you go black, we ain't paying the uber fare back"......

    :auto: Get you dad to pick you up because I ain't dropping you, goldern girls is about to come on.
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    Errrrm..no. I really don't find white men the most desirable.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Right back atcha.

    I'm an Alpha male.

    And girls want to **** alpha males. Let it piss you off as much as you want, but you know it's completely true. That girl you like who is kinda cute in a weird way, but is totally sweet and you have the biggest crush on? The one who keeps going back to guys who treat her wrong for reasnos you don't understand? The one who calls you up at 1 am to cry about how her boyfriend hasn't called her in 3 days, and no matter how long you listen to her, she'll never think of you as anything other than asexual? The one who will curl up next to you on the couch, hug you close, kiss you on the cheek, and never let you ****ing touch her beyond that?

    Yeah, I'm ****ing her.

    The hot girl who won't even look at you when you nod at them and smile? The one who laughs when you trip in the hallway and drop your stuff? The one who comes up and coyly aks for your help with her homework, and then pretends you don't exist once you finish?

    Yeah, I'm ****ing her too, even harder.

    The geeky girl you think might be enough like you that you have a chance with her? She plays warcraft on your server, and watches anime, and reads comics? She's so incredible and you just love her so much but you still haven't worked up the courage to tell her how you feel about her?

    Guess who just sucked me off and told me they'll always love me?




    And what's more? I laugh at guys like you. When you cry about how much girls treat you bad, and wonder why they can't just see that you're a nice guy who would always treat them right? I nod and tell you to hang in there, you'll find someone right for you someday, don't give up hope man. But inside? I'm laughing my ass off at you you pathetic ****. Every girl you set your sights on, who isn't a disgusting pig-monster, I'm going to **** 6 ways from sunday before you even tell her you think she's cute. I won't bother trying when you finally settle for that 350 pound girl who works at hardees, you can have that. Anything else I'm going to *** on her face before you get those lips near it.

    And the biggest reason I laugh? It's not me doing all this. It's the girls. When you cry about how lonely you are? Or talk about how you just want to curl up and dissapear, and all that emo bull****? You're triggering her "Don't ****" instinct something feirce. You're a miserable weak coward, why would she want your genes? Feel free to buy her a new computer and help her decorate her apartment, you're great for that. But her baby-maker is barking orders at her, telling her to wrap her legs around me and hold on for as long as she can. She needs it, on a primal level you'll never get to see first hand, even if you do get a chance to **** her. Sooner or later one of them will lay back and spread their legs, but you won't see any hunger in their eyes. They won't beg you to love them forever and make them yours. You won't know what it's like to see her animal side needing you as much as she needs to eat and breath.




    And she's cheating on you, I promise that. When she sits around quiet and uncomfortable, acting irritable and irrational towards you, wanting you to just back away and leave her alone, it's not her period. It's because I haven't called her for a day or two and her instincts are telling her to go find me. The primitive section of her brain doesn't want to risk smelling like another man when she gives herself to me, she wants me to know she's completely mine. We do things together she tells you she never would. Her pooper? Mine. I want to give her a facial? of course. I want her to suck the *** out of my dick, even though I just finished pumping away at her ass? she's never going to tell me no. She doesn't WNAT to tell me no. She wants me to know she'll do anything it takes to keep me. She'll rim my ass while she's down there sucking me off if it means pleasing me. She'll drink my *** from a shotglass. She'll wear a buttplug when we go out to dinner. She'll sleep handcuffed to my headboard. Anything.

    And then she'll go home to you and tell you she's not in the mood today.

    I'd say you should become an hero, but you being aruond makes her want a real man all the more, so keep ***ging it up, I'll keep that pussy warm while you're crying in the corner.

    I spot a miscer
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    I love Scandinavian/Germanic men the most. Well, that's just me. Some ethnic women really like black or Asian men, even in my country that's a big part of girls who prefer black or Asian men. So, it depends on the person.
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    (Original post by dropoutbear)
    lol im pretty sure its black guys who get the most.

    "Once you go black you never go back"...
    No true, most Indian and Oriental women would pick a white guy over a black guy any day. But yes white women love black guys.

    Whether in the west or outside the western world, majority of non-white women would place white guys next in their list of potential suitors and most desirable men after their own race of course, particularly Indians and Asians.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    OP is a disgruntled white male neckbeard

    das it mayne

    you'll never be one of us Alphas slayin pooosy
    Aren't alphas usually confident?

    'Cause I don't think an alpha would hide behind anonymity. I also don't think an alpha would care if someone thought he was an alpha.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I spot a miscer
    Male OP detected. You on that there sub-8/10 time?

    time to lay down and rot


    it's all over


    boyo
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    People should know that people in Interracial relationships for the sake of Interracial relationships is just as bad as those who are against them.
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    Plus a lot of asian/ black countries are thunderstruck with white worship, a lot of the women see white men as far above their own men, it tends to cause a lot of problems in their ethnic looking children though.
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    (Original post by ThatOldGuy)
    Aren't alphas usually confident?

    'Cause I don't think an alpha would hide behind anonymity. I also don't think an alpha would care if someone thought he was an alpha.
    There are methods and social contrivances women have used for centuries to ensure that the best male’s genes are selected and secured with the best male provisioning she’s capable of attracting. Ideally the best Man should exemplify both, but rarely do the two exist in the same male (particularly these days) so in the interest of achieving her biological imperative, and prompted by an innate need for security, the feminine as a whole had to develop social conventions and methodologies (which change as her environment and personal conditions do) to effect this. Men are not only up against a female genetic imperative, but also centuries long feminine social conventions established and adapted from a time long before human beings could accurately determine genetic origins.

    I’ve detailed in many prior threads that mate selection is a psycho-biological function that millennia of evolution has hardwired into both sexes. So internalized and socialized is this process into our collective psyches that we rarely recognize we’re subject to these motivators even when we continually repeat the same behaviors manifested by them (such as having the second kid with the Alpha Bad Boy). So saying that we’re not subject to conditions we’re or are only vaguely aware of is a bit naive.

    It’s simple deductive logic to follow that for a species to survive it must provide it’s offspring with the best possible conditions to ensure it’s survival – either that or to reproduce in such quantity that it ensures survival. The obvious application of this for women is sharing parental investment with the best possible mate her own genetics allow her to attract and who can provide long term security for her and any potential offspring. Thus women are biologically, psychologically and sociologically the filters of their own reproduction, where as men’s reproductive methodology is to scatter as much of his genetic material as humanly possible to the widest available quantity of sexually available females. He of course has his own criteria for mating selection and determining the best genetic pairing for his reproduction (i.e. she’s gotta be hot), but his criteria is certainly less discriminating than that for women (i.e. no one’s ugly after 2am). This is evidenced in our own hormonal biology; men possess between 12 and17 times the amount of testosterone (the primary hormone in sexual arousal) women do and women produce substantially more estrogen (instrumental in sexual caution) and oxytocin (fostering feelings of security and nurturing) than men.

    That stated, both of these methodologies conflict in practice. For a woman to best ensure the survival of her young, a man must necessarily abandon his method of reproduction in favor of her own. This then sets a contradictory imperative for him to pair with a woman who will satisfy his methodology. A male must sacrifice his reproductive schedule to satisfy that of the woman he pairs with. Thus, with so much genetic potential at stake on his part of the risk, he want’s not only to ensure that she is the best possible candidate for breeding (and future breeding), but also to know that his progeny will benefit from both parent’s investment.

    Side note: One interesting outcome of this psycho-biological dynamic is men’s ability to spot their own children in a crowd of other children more quickly and with greater acuity than even their mothers. Studies have shown that men have the ability to more quickly and accurately identify their own children in a room full of kids dressed in the same uniforms than the mothers of the child. Again, this stresses the subconscious importance of this genetic trade off.

    These are the rudiments of human sexual selection and reproduction. There are many other social, emotional, psychological intricacies that are associated with these fundamentals, but they are the underlying motivations and considerations that subconsciously influence sexual selection.

    Social Convention
    To counter this subconscious dynamic to their own genetic advantage women initiate social conventions and psychological schemas to better facilitate their own breeding methodologies. This is why women always have the “prerogative to change her mind” and the most fickle of behaviors become socially excusable, while men’s behavior is constrained to a higher standard of responsibility to “do the right thing” which is invariably to the advantage of a woman’s reproductive scheme . This is why guys who are ‘Players’, and fathers who abandon mothers to pursue their innate reproduction method are villains, and fathers who selflessly sacrifice themselves financially, emotionally and life decision-wise, often to the benefit of children they didn’t father, are considered social heroes for complying with women’s genetic imperatives.

    This is also the root motivation for female-specific social dynamics such as LJBF rejections, women’s propensity for victimhood (as they’ve learned that this engenders ‘savior’ mental schemas for men’s breeding schedules – Cap’n Save a Ho) and even marriage itself.

    Good Dads vs Good Genes
    The two greatest difficulties for women to overcome in their own methodology is that they are only at a sexually viable peak for a short window of time (generally their 20s) and the fact that the qualities that make a good long term partner (the Good Dad) and the qualities that make for good breeding stock (Good Genes) only rarely manifest themselves in the same male. Provisioning and security potential are fantastic motivators for pairing with a Good Dad, but the same characteristics that make him such are generally a disadvantage when compared with the man who better exemplifies genetic, physical attraction and the risk taking qualities that would imbue her child with a better capacity to adapt to it’s environment (i.e stronger, faster, more attractive than others to ensure the passing of her own genetic material to future generations). This is the Jerk vs. Nice Guy paradox writ large on an evolutionary scale.

    Men and women innately (though unconsciously) understand this dynamic, so in order for a woman to have the best that the Good Dad has to offer while taking advantage of the best that the Good Genes man has, she must invent and constantly modify social conventions to keep the advantage in her biological favor.

    Reproductive Schedules
    This paradox then necessitates that women (and by default men) must subscribe to short term and long term schedules of mating. Short term schedules facilitate breeding with the Good Genes male, while long term breeding is reserved the Good Dad male. This convention and the psycho-social schemas that accompany it are precisely why women will marry the Nice Guy, stable, loyal, (preferably) doctor and still **** the pool boy or the cute surfer she met on spring break. In our genetic past, a male with good genes implied an ability to be a good provider, but modern convention has thwarted this, so new social and mental schemas had to be developed for women.

    Cheating
    For this dynamic and the practicality of enjoying the best of both genetic worlds, women find it necessary to ‘cheat’. This cheating can be done proactively or reactively.

    In the reactive model, a woman who has already paired with her long term partner choice, engages in a extramarital or extra-pairing, sexual intercourse with a short term partner (i.e. the cheating wife or girlfriend). That’s not to say this short term opportunity cannot develop into a 2nd, long term mate, but the action of infidelity itself is a method for securing better genetic stock than the committed male provider is capable of supplying.

    Proactive cheating is the single Mommy dilema. This form of ‘cheating’ relies on the woman breeding with a Good Genes male, bearing his children and then abandoning him, or having him abandon her, (again through invented social conventions) in order to find a Good Dad male to provide for her and the children of her Good Genes partner to ensure their security.

    I want to stress again that (most) women do not have some consciously constructed and recognized master plan to enact this cycle and deliberately trap men into it. Rather, the motivations for this behavior and the accompanying social rationales invented to justify it are an unconscious process. For the most part, women are unaware of this dynamic, but are nonetheless subject to it’s influence. For a female of any species to facilitate a methodology for breeding with the best genetic partner she’s able to attract AND to ensure her own and her offspring’s survival with the best provisioning partner; this is an evolutionary jackpot.

    The Cuckold
    On some level of consciousness, men innately sense something is wrong with this situation, though they may not be able to place why they feel it or misunderstand it in the confusion of women’s justifications for it. Or they become frustrated by the social pressures to ‘do the right thing’, are shamed into martyrdom/savior-hood and committed to a feigned responsibility to these conventions. Nevertheless, some see it well enough to steer clear of single mothers, either by prior experience or observing other male cuckolds saddled with the responsibility of raising and providing for – no matter how involved or uninvolved – another man’s successful reproduction efforts with this woman.

    Men often fall into the role of the proactive or reactive Cuckold. He will never enjoy the same benefits as his mates short term partner(s) to the same degree, in the way of sexual desire or immediacy of it, while at the same time enduring the social pressures of having to provide for this Good Genes father’s progeny. It could be argued that he may contribute minimally to their welfare, but on some level, whether emotional, physical, financial or educational he will contribute some effort for another man’s genetic stock in exchange for a limited form of sexuality/intimacy from the mother. To some degree, (even if only by his presence) he is sharing the parental investment that should be borne by the short term partner. If nothing else, he contributes the time and effort to her he could be better invested in finding a sexual partner with which he could pursue his own genetic imperative by his own methodology.

    However, needless to say, there is no shortage of men sexually deprived enough to ‘see past’ the long term disadvantages, and not only rewarding, but reinforcing a single mother’s bad decisions (bad from his own interest’s POV) with regard to her breeding selections and schedules in exchange for short term sexual gratification. Furthermore, by reinforcing her behavior thusly, he reinforces the social convention for both men and women. It’s important to bear in mind that in this age women are ultimately, soley responsible for the men they choose to mate with (baring rape of course) AND giving birth to their children. Men do bear responsibility for their actions no doubt, but it is ultimately the decision of the female and her judgement that decides her and her children’s fate
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    (A bunch of copy and paste stuff that doesn't actually address aything)
    You're still anonymous, and you look more like a relationship script-kiddy than an alpha male. You do you, man. Rock on, but claiming to be alpha male while being too scared to actually post as yourself is silly goosery at its finest.
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    I am an asian girl, Chinese to be exact.
    Personally, I didn't find white men particularly attractive but they seems to be more interested in asian girls than black men. In China, maybe also in countries like Japan and Korea, girls tend to assume white men are more romantic because of Hollywood films or some TV shows. The proportion of attractive black men in mainstream film industry is far less than that of white men I think. Since east Asian is not as diverse as the UK, people get the first impression mainly from films/news and there is little chance to make friend with foreigners. So it is not strange that girls want to fall in love with a white male, like in the film. This situation is not racism or discrimination but a lack of understanding of real situation I suppose.
    This is just my opinion and it can be wrong.
    If I said anything offensive, then sorry, I really didn't mean to
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    (Original post by ThatOldGuy)
    You're still anonymous, and you look more like a relationship script-kiddy than an alpha male. You do you, man. Rock on, but claiming to be alpha male while being too scared to actually post as yourself is silly goosery at its finest.
    http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/copypasta

    LOL @ taking this seriously :rofl:
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    I don't see this connection at all. Practically all my 'ethnic' friends (oriental, latin, black,) have a preference for black/darker men. Very rare that they find a white guy attractive. Im mixed race and my bf is white, but I don't have a preference for white.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No true, most Indian and Oriental women would pick a white guy over a black guy any day. But yes white women love black guys.

    Whether in the west or outside the western world, majority of non-white women would place white guys next in their list of potential suitors and most desirable men after their own race of course, particularly Indians and Asians.
    Are you white?

    What's your point?
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    no lol
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    lol im indian and there are some attractive white guys but i would always prefer to be with an asian and find asians the most attractive,
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No true, most Indian and Oriental women would pick a white guy over a black guy any day. But yes white women love black guys.

    Whether in the west or outside the western world, majority of non-white women would place white guys next in their list of potential suitors and most desirable men after their own race of course, particularly Indians and Asians.
    The buff indians and orientals want black
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    (Original post by RivalPlayer)
    Yeah, if they're looking for someone who is outside their own ethnic group.I see a lot of this in London particularly among Chinese and Indian women.
    The reason is the belief that white westeners are culturally and aesthetically superior. It's a status booster.
    Again no lol, loads of us would prefer a brown or black guy over a white guy any day. That is a very colonial mindset lmfao


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    When a Chinese girl dates a white guy, someone would say Chinese are racism... When a Chinese girl hang out with Asian, then it is "Asians clique a lot".
    In the end, dating men with darker skins is our only reasonable choice. Lol.
 
 
 
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