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Do you ever just fall in love with yourself?

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    I feel like such a narcissist right now but I just love embracing these moments where I realise how awesome I am and just love myself and look at myself in the mirror a lot and wonder why I don't have more friends because I'm such a likeable person. These moments last for about an hour and come about once a week.

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    yas, love yourself, nothing wrong with that (though there is the boundaries) but you deserver to lav ur shelf right now, luv it, i need to lov myself too
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    I don't blame you seem pretty cool
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    Interesting... do you feel a need for admiration from others?
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    You're either trolling or expressing a deeply ugly emotion, even for a teenager. For an aspiring mental health professional or nurse, it's even more bizarre.
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    Is the score of 1, good or bad?
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    im like that too :five:
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    Justin Beebs told me to go and love myself :love:
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    Okay then...
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    (Original post by ihatePE)
    yas, love yourself, nothing wrong with that (though there is the boundaries) but you deserver to lav ur shelf right now, luv it, i need to lov myself too
    :love: yes you should love yourself because you have awesome dance moves okay and are an awesome person

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    I don't blame you seem pretty cool
    Thank you :hugs: You seem great too!

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    Interesting... do you feel a need for admiration from others?
    Yes but its more I yearn to be appreciated and loved by others as opposed to admired

    (Original post by Reality Check)
    You're either trolling or expressing a deeply ugly emotion, even for a teenager. For an aspiring mental health professional or nurse, it's even more bizarre.
    There's nothing with having confidence in myself and finally learning to love everything about me after so long. I'm not egotistically, or narcissistic per say and I certainly don't think I'm better than anyone so I don't know what you mean by "deeply ugly emotion".

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    Is the score of 1, good or bad?
    :sad: It means you need more confidence :hugs:
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    (Original post by mkap)
    im like that too :five:
    Glad I'm not alone :hugs:

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    Justin Beebs told me to go and love myself :love:
    same :lol:

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    Okay then...
    You love me :hugs:
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    (Original post by bluemadhatter)
    :love: yes you should love yourself because you have awesome dance moves okay and are an awesome person



    Thank you :hugs: You seem great too!



    Yes but its more I yearn to be appreciated and loved by others as opposed to admired



    There's nothing with having confidence in myself and finally learning to love everything about me after so long. I'm not egotistically, or narcissistic per say and I certainly don't think I'm better than anyone so I don't know what you mean by "deeply ugly emotion".



    :sad: It means you need more confidence :hugs:
    :lol: Don't think that's gonaa happen, I'm not very confident with myself.
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    I do when I'm lean I guess :rofl: Just have those days where I look really pumped and lean and my hair has gone well I'm like "Yeeeahhhh, lookin' good boy"

    (Original post by Reality Check)
    You're either trolling or expressing a deeply ugly emotion, even for a teenager. For an aspiring mental health professional or nurse, it's even more bizarre.
    I'd have thought a prerequisite for dealing with mental health and teaching people to value themselves is to value oneself also?
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I do when I'm lean I guess :rofl: Just have those days where I look really pumped and lean and my hair has gone well I'm like "Yeeeahhhh, lookin' good boy"



    I'd have thought a prerequisite for dealing with mental health and teaching people to value themselves is to value oneself also?
    Yes, but the phrase "...I realise how awesome I am and just love myself and look at myself in the mirror a lot and wonder why I don't have more friends because I'm such a likeable person." is the antithesis of 'valuing oneself' - it revels either a great insecurity with a need for reassurance and validation or an unhealthy narcissism and vanity. Most people do not feel like this about themselves.
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    I do have my moments where i think a little highly of myself i must admit, don't see anything wrong with it either. how do expect others to love you if you can't love yourself, right?
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    I got 21 as well :rofl:
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    (Original post by Reachin4TheStars)
    :lol: Don't think that's gonaa happen, I'm not very confident with myself.
    Confidence imo takes time to build. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you and work on loving yourself.

    (Original post by Reality Check)
    Yes, but the phrase "...I realise how awesome I am and just love myself and look at myself in the mirror a lot and wonder why I don't have more friends because I'm such a likeable person." is the antithesis of 'valuing oneself' - it revels either a great insecurity with a need for reassurance and validation or an unhealthy narcissism and vanity. Most people do not feel like this about themselves.
    I didn't say I felt like that all the time, I said I get little bursts of extreme confidence like this which make me feel good about myself. Would you rather me hate myself and be insecure about all the things that are wrong with me? Because I've been there and its not a nice feeling. This current feeling is the best feeling that I get and I want to make sure that everyone feels this confident about themselves at some point in their life.

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    I do have my moments where i think a little highly of myself i must admit, don't see anything wrong with it either. how do expect others to love you if you can't love yourself, right?
    Exactly Love yourself how you want to be loved...
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I got 21 as well :rofl:
    :party:
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    (Original post by bluemadhatter)
    Confidence imo takes time to build. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you and work on loving yourself.



    I didn't say I felt like that all the time, I said I get little bursts of extreme confidence like this which make me feel good about myself. Would you rather me hate myself and be insecure about all the things that are wrong with me? Because I've been there and its not a nice feeling. This current feeling is the best feeling that I get and I want to make sure that everyone feels this confident about themselves at some point in their life.



    Exactly Love yourself how you want to be loved...
    True, but I don't really like anything about myself. All my college squad appreciate me, but I can't love myself :cry2::cry:
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