why do i have lesbian thoughts?

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    when im pleasing myself i get off kissing and sleeping with other girls. otherwise i wouldnt look at a girl in that way and i never do look at them in that way. im only attracted to boys. i would sleep with a girl though if i found her really pretty AND she seduced me enough.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    when im pleasing myself i get off kissing and sleeping with other girls. otherwise i wouldnt look at a girl in that way and i never do look at them in that way. im only attracted to boys. i would sleep with a girl though if i found her really pretty AND she seduced me enough.
    Bicurious perhaps?
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    I guess you're bisexual ? Nothing wrong with it
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    you're bi, thats why (that rhymes!)
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    but im not attracted to girls, if im not masturbating the thought of kissing a girl repulses me

    (Original post by Allie4)
    you're bi, thats why (that rhymes!)
    (Original post by sunnydespair)
    I guess you're bisexual ? Nothing wrong with it
    (Original post by UWS)
    Bicurious perhaps?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    but im not attracted to girls, if im not masturbating the thought of kissing a girl repulses me
    if you get turned on by them then i'm sorry to break it to you but that means you clearly are attracted to (a certain type of) girls
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    I kissed a girl and I liked it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    when im pleasing myself i get off kissing and sleeping with other girls. otherwise i wouldnt look at a girl in that way and i never do look at them in that way. im only attracted to boys. i would sleep with a girl though if i found her really pretty AND she seduced me enough.
    Maybe you're bisexual. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
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    (Original post by Allie4)
    if you get turned on by them then i'm sorry to break it to you but that means you clearly are attracted to (a certain type of) girls
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    Maybe you're bisexual. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
    but isnt it normal for girls to watch lesbian porn and get off it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    but isnt it normal for girls to watch lesbian porn and get off it
    There have been observations to suggest that it's quite common. It still implies bisexuality, though, regardless of how common it is.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    when im pleasing myself i get off kissing and sleeping with other girls. otherwise i wouldnt look at a girl in that way and i never do look at them in that way. im only attracted to boys. i would sleep with a girl though if i found her really pretty AND she seduced me enough.
    It's normal, even among straight girls (from what I've heard).

    Though it's possible that you're not 100% straight. It doesn't really matter though, surely? Even if it only feels good in your mind, it feels good so go with it :borat:
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    It's a lot easier for girls to masturbate to lesbian porn than heterosexual, due to it being more sensual and gentle and a few "studies" have confirmed this.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    but isnt it normal for girls to watch lesbian porn and get off it
    but you also said you'd sleep with a girl if she was attractive enough
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    Look up heteroromantic bisexuality.
    It's more common than you might think!
    Sexuality is a spectrum
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    when im pleasing myself i get off kissing and sleeping with other girls. otherwise i wouldnt look at a girl in that way and i never do look at them in that way. im only attracted to boys. i would sleep with a girl though if i found her really pretty AND she seduced me enough.
    To be completely honest, it doesn't matter if you're attracted to girls or not. Don't feel pressured to label something that only really matters to you. As long as you're happy and the people around you are happy, you're probably doing alright!
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    Let me just jump in here, it is very common for straight girls to find other girls attractive, it usually has to do with the "soft" nature of females, but it doesnt necessarily make you bisexual/ lesbian. The fact that you say you might sleep with a girl maybe just has to do with you wanting to test out your curiosity. You could also be bicurous - but, to be honest with you, you dont need to start labelling what you are. Explore if you like, but other than that, just keep on doing what you do
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    You aren't bisexual..people get off at anything. Human mind is just curious in nature and I wouldn't look into it because it's just a fantasy. Reality is much different though. In real life you're straight and that's what it matters.
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    You're bi-curious fam :curious:
 
 
 
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