Need advice : Really like a guy I told him and didn't get anything back

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    I just really need advice ...

    I've been in a relationship for 4 years it hasn't been the healthiest relationship and we recently ended again. Start of the year I found it out about a few things that he was doing and we broke up I met someone new, let's call him "jack" and we talked for a while and he was the nicest guy ever , just perfect. The timing was just wrong and then I broke it up because it was going too fast and then me and my ex tried to sort things out eventually the "jack" found out and then he stopped talking to me completely . Fast forward few months and we briefly spoke again but it was just small talk. I think about him every day literally and I really really like him and I really do regret messing things up with him . I couldn't do anything about it cause I was still in a relationships.

    Me and my ex broke up fully we've been apart for some time but we called quits again , I went out over the weekend and called "Jack" and literally confessed all my feelings to him. He listened and said his part also but he never really talked about how he felt now . The next morning he messaged to see if I meant all that I said or if it was just drunk talk I said I meant it all, we talked briefly and he said he wants me to figure out what I want and stuff . I messaged him later on and basically said sorry for putting him in such a bad situation and that he didn't really give me any reaction or anything from what I said and just feel like a fool expressing myself , he just replied saying he can't say anything until I made a decision but he appreciates me telling him how I feel .

    I really don't know what to, I didn't get the reaction I expected and I don't even know if he has feelings for me anymore , I really do like him but he just is not giving me anything back .

    What should I do , should I just forget about it and move on from this or should I wait to hear from him again ?
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    Play them both along, that's what you're best option. Then pick the one who has more money and is better in bed. Only these things can make you happy.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just really need advice ...

    I've been in a relationship for 4 years it hasn't been the healthiest relationship and we recently ended again. Start of the year I found it out about a few things that he was doing and we broke up I met someone new, let's call him "jack" and we talked for a while and he was the nicest guy ever , just perfect. The timing was just wrong and then I broke it up because it was going too fast and then me and my ex tried to sort things out eventually the "jack" found out and then he stopped talking to me completely . Fast forward few months and we briefly spoke again but it was just small talk. I think about him every day literally and I really really like him and I really do regret messing things up with him . I couldn't do anything about it cause I was still in a relationships.

    Me and my ex broke up fully we've been apart for some time but we called quits again , I went out over the weekend and called "Jack" and literally confessed all my feelings to him. He listened and said his part also but he never really talked about how he felt now . The next morning he messaged to see if I meant all that I said or if it was just drunk talk I said I meant it all, we talked briefly and he said he wants me to figure out what I want and stuff . I messaged him later on and basically said sorry for putting him in such a bad situation and that he didn't really give me any reaction or anything from what I said and just feel like a fool expressing myself , he just replied saying he can't say anything until I made a decision but he appreciates me telling him how I feel .

    I really don't know what to, I didn't get the reaction I expected and I don't even know if he has feelings for me anymore , I really do like him but he just is not giving me anything back .

    What should I do , should I just forget about it and move on from this or should I wait to hear from him again ?
    Definitely just ask him regardless of his feelings can he let you know, tell him you are sincere in your emotions and ask him to tell you how he feels.

    Regardless of his feelings you need to know to start the next chapter in your life whether he likes you or not and is a part of it or not

    Good luck!!
 
 
 
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