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Would it be weird if I went to visit him?

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    A good friend of mine has recently moved abroad for Erasmus, and will be there until next June. I've known him for about 10 months, and we talk online every day.

    I last saw him 2 weeks ago just before he went to board his flight. A few months ago we slept together a couple of times and things became a bit complicated as I wanted a relationship and he didn't, mainly due to moving, but I think we've really passed all that now and moved on, and our friendship has become strong.

    Another friend of ours is going to stay with him for a few days, and I'd love to as well. I'll go at the same time as her if I can/he's got space, but if not, I guess I'll go at a different time on my own.

    Just wondering, do you think this would be weird if I suggested it to him? I guess he's gonna be having our other friend stay, but I'm wondering if he won't want me to because of our 'history', even if we're really good friends now.
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    If you're really good friends and want to continue being really good friends, I wouldn't worry about it being weird.

    i don't see the problem with tagging along with your friend to go visit him
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