Should I move on?

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    Hey everyone,

    I was in a relationship with a guy for a few months, until we broke up recently due to him wanting to focus on himself and to sort things out in his life.

    He wants us to be friends instead, which I don't mind. Sometimes, I find it difficult to see him as a friend as I am used to us being more than that. But, now that me and him are no longer together, what should I do now? should I just move on?
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    In general if you're asking if you should move on then you should probably move in.

    From what you say (wanting to just be friends) it seems like he has. There's no reason to tie yourself down because you aren't moving on.
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    (Original post by Acsel)
    In general if you're asking if you should move on then you should probably move in.

    From what you say (wanting to just be friends) it seems like he has. There's no reason to tie yourself down because you aren't moving on.
    You're actually right. The fact that he wanted me and him to build on friendship shows that he has moved on. So, I don't see the point of me hanging around and waiting for something that may not come back.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You're actually right. The fact that he wanted me and him to build on friendship shows that he has moved on. So, I don't see the point of me hanging around and waiting for something that may not come back.
    Good way to look at it. Don't discount that something may happen but don't go on thinking something could (or definitely won't). Be open but leave yourself options. Don't be tied down to your past.
 
 
 
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