Guys - how would you react to this?

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    I live in an apartment complex and saw a guy in the concierge earlier - he checked me out and I found him cute but didn't think much more of it. He went out of the building and then came back and I overheard him telling the receptionist his flat number which happens to be in the same building as me. I left the concierge, went back to my flat, and then he was walking in to my apartment building as I was leaving it a few minutes later. I held the door out for him as he had lots of stuff, he thanked me and I said it was OK. I think he is so cute and I want to know him but I don't want to come off as desperate. Right now I know nothing about him, just his flat number. I don't know if he is single but I kinda got the feeling he found me attractive. I was in my gym gear which I guess helps, and I was standing next to him at one point and it was a little awkward for both of us which I don't think it would have been if he found me ugly. I'm usually quite good at judging whether someone is in to me but for all I know he could be living with a girlfriend. I know there's a chance I may bump in to him again, but there are usually so many people around the complex that I may even struggle to pick him out/ have forgotten what he looks like. I would like to get my message across effectively but I don't want to have my pride hurt, say if he is taken or is not interested. I also don't want to come off as easy. I was thinking of slipping a note in his letterbox/under his door to ask him out. This could go one way or the other though and if he declines/doesn't respond at all I'm not sure I could face the embarrassment of potentially seeing him around.Would you find it weird if you received such a note?
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    You're overthinking it.
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    (Original post by RDKGames)
    You're overthinking it.
    My. Thoughts. Exactly.
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    Personally id say try introducing yourself to him first at least, but its just a random guy, not worth losing too much sleep over
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    Don't ask him out right away just when you see him say hey I have seen you around a lot ... " and then whatever you want to say after that .. That's the best way there is no point of jumping right into it
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    (Original post by RDKGames)
    You're overthinking it.
    So you think I should do it, or do you mean I am overthinking the guy and should move on?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Don't ask him out right away just when you see him say hey I have seen you around a lot ... " and then whatever you want to say after that .. That's the best way there is no point of jumping right into it
    But there's very little chance I'll see him around again - it just happened to be a coincidence that I saw him a lot today
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So you think I should do it, or do you mean I am overthinking the guy and should move on?
    I mean exactly what I say, you're thinking about it too much. If you like him, get to know him first before you ask him out, that's what normally happens.
 
 
 
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