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I live in an apartment complex and saw a guy in the concierge earlier - he checked me out and I found him cute but didn't think much more of it. He went out of the building and then came back and I overheard him telling the receptionist his flat number which happens to be in the same building as me. I left the concierge, went back to my flat, and then he was walking in to my apartment building as I was leaving it a few minutes later. I held the door out for him as he had lots of stuff, he thanked me and I said it was OK. I think he is so cute and I want to know him but I don't want to come off as desperate. Right now I know nothing about him, just his flat number. I don't know if he is single but I kinda got the feeling he found me attractive. I was in my gym gear which I guess helps, and I was standing next to him at one point and it was a little awkward for both of us which I don't think it would have been if he found me ugly. I'm usually quite good at judging whether someone is in to me but for all I know he could be living with a girlfriend. I know there's a chance I may bump in to him again, but there are usually so many people around the complex that I may even struggle to pick him out/ have forgotten what he looks like. I would like to get my message across effectively but I don't want to have my pride hurt, say if he is taken or is not interested. I also don't want to come off as easy. I was thinking of slipping a note in his letterbox/under his door to ask him out. This could go one way or the other though and if he declines/doesn't respond at all I'm not sure I could face the embarrassment of potentially seeing him around.Would you find it weird if you received such a note?

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RDKGames

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You're overthinking it.

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username2053059

Original post by RDKGames

You're overthinking it.

My. Thoughts. Exactly.

Reply 3

ljf98

Personally id say try introducing yourself to him first at least, but its just a random guy, not worth losing too much sleep over

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Don't ask him out right away just when you see him say hey I have seen you around a lot ... " and then whatever you want to say after that .. That's the best way there is no point of jumping right into it

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by RDKGames

You're overthinking it.

So you think I should do it, or do you mean I am overthinking the guy and should move on?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

But there's very little chance I'll see him around again - it just happened to be a coincidence that I saw him a lot today

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RDKGames

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Original post by Anonymous

So you think I should do it, or do you mean I am overthinking the guy and should move on?

I mean exactly what I say, you're thinking about it too much. If you like him, get to know him first before you ask him out, that's what normally happens.

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