Guys - how would you react to this?

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    I live in an apartment complex and saw a guy in the concierge earlier - he checked me out and I found him cute but didn't think much more of it. He went out of the building and then came back and I overheard him telling the receptionist his flat number which happens to be in the same building as me. I left the concierge, went back to my flat, and then he was walking in to my apartment building as I was leaving it a few minutes later. I held the door out for him as he had lots of stuff, he thanked me and I said it was OK.

    I think he is so cute and I want to know him but I don't want to come off as desperate. Right now I know nothing about him, just his flat number. I don't know if he is single but I kinda got the feeling he found me attractive. I was in my gym gear which I guess helps, and I was standing next to him at one point and it was a little awkward for both of us which I don't think it would have been if he found me ugly. I'm usually quite good at judging whether someone is in to me but for all I know he could be living with a girlfriend. I know there's a chance I may bump in to him again, but there are usually so many people around the complex that I may even struggle to pick him out/ have forgotten what he looks like.

    I would like to get my message across effectively but I don't want to have my pride hurt, say if he is taken or is not interested. I also don't want to come off as easy. I was thinking of slipping a note in his letterbox/under his door to ask him out. This could go one way or the other though and if he declines/doesn't respond at all I'm not sure I could face the embarrassment of potentially seeing him around.Would you find it weird if you received such a note?
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    This is like the 3rd time now!
    Are you ever gonna stop!?
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    you could go round and ask to borrow something ? or ask advice about something a man could help you with ?
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    if a guy posted this everyone would call him a stalker
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    Lol, don't slip him a note. I'd find a note off a stranger weird and suspicious.

    In this situation, it would be better if you knocked on the guys door, just to greet him as a neighbour, offer help maybe.
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    (Original post by Cremated_Spatula)
    Lol, don't slip him a note. I'd find a note off a stranger weird and suspicious.

    In this situation, it would be better if you knocked on the guys door, just to greet him as a neighbour, offer help maybe.
    He lives 3 floors down, haha
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    He lives 3 floors down, haha
    To me, it's less weird than sticking a post-it note on his door or slipping a note through his letterbox.

    You could also just wait until you bump into him again, if you manage to forget his face, you've probably waited too long.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    He lives 3 floors down, haha
    Because his "Nervous" doesn't mean his in to you he could just have social anxiety or it could be due to him struggling with the stuff he was carrying making his voice sound like his nervous.

    I also think that your making a story in your head that you fancy each other and this imaginary relationship however in reality u just have a crush on him (can tell u have a crush on him as you have posted this story multiple times). To summarise you are assuming a lot from opening up a door for him and him saying "thanks".
 
 
 
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